Love What I Doula

Love What I Doula Seneca Birth Doula 🐺Pregnancy+Birth+Postpartum+Lactation Serving the Western NY area

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11/16/2025

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As a “retired” busy-bee and Type A gal, the newborn phase can sometimes be a struggle.

There’s a running to-do list in my head. The lack of productivity puts me on edge. I find myself with the urge to put him down, so that I can get up and check things off my list.

But I have to remind myself - this isn’t forever. One day he won’t fall asleep so soundly on my chest. One day he won’t need or want me to rock him to sleep. One day he won’t want these snuggles. But I always will. And there will always be chores to be done. Tasks to check off.

But these days, we don’t get them back. So I’ll turn my brain off. And soak up the uninterrupted snuggles. Because these moments are already dwindling.

I’m replaceable everywhere but here ❤️‍🩹

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11/15/2025

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🌿 Watch Anytime, Anywhere: “Skin to Skin is Not Universal: Teaching Equity” presented by Raeanne Madison, MPH🌿

As frontline workers and educators serving birthing families, we often emphasize the importance of “skin to skin” contact, especially in the first hour after birth. But standard teaching approaches may not meet the needs of all families or reflect the diverse contexts in which care happens.

This webinar explores how skin to skin is not universally applicable, and offers strategies to teach and support early parenting and lactation in ways that are equitable, culturally aware, and context-sensitive.

✨ In this session, you’ll:
-Recognize three benefits of skin to skin contact 🤱🏾
-Understand how diverse community and cultural contexts shape perceptions of skin to skin 🌎
-Learn three equity-based teaching strategies to support all families 💛

💻 Approved for: 1 L-CERP | 1 Nurse Contact Hour | 1 Social Work CE | 1 CHW CEU | 1 CHEC | 1 CME (valid until 12/24/25)

🔗 Register and access here: mibreastfeeding.org/webinars

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11/15/2025

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11/15/2025

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Jean Whitehorse's Native name means "Many Children," but she only has one child. This spring, she spoke at the United Nations Permanent Forum on Indigenous Issues in New York to explain why.

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11/14/2025

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🌿 Reminder: Register for the Healthy Generations Program! 🌿

Don’t forget to sign up for this special community gathering for Buffalo/Niagara Native families, caregivers, and organizations!

📅 Friday, November 14, 2025
🕔 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM
📍 1005 Grant Street, Buffalo, NY
🍽️ Dinner will be served

Join us for an evening of sharing stories, ideas, and experiences that help strengthen and support Native families.

Together, we’ll celebrate our community’s strengths and shape future programs for generations to come.

✨ Family-friendly space – all are welcome!
🔗 Scan the QR code to register today!

📞 Questions? Contact:
Sherrie Kechego
📧 skechego@nacswyn.org
📱 (716) 574-3378

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11/14/2025

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Moss – the ultimate in biodegradable diapers.

It’s an age old practice. The process entails harvesting moss from a nearby muskeg, removing twigs, hanging the moss in bundles above the stove, and providing an environment for it to dry.

Babies got the special treatment. Moss was warmed up in the frying pan before being packed in place in the Tihkinaakan. The moss is highly absorbent and gets lost in the degrading of natural products once its purpose with the baby is done. Unlike pampers, it leaves no visible footprint.

Kihchiis Ihkwe as a grandmother adopted the traditional role of looking after her grandchildren. Winter was no deterrent to harvesting moss. A baby’s need diaper material is four season and moss was retrieved similarly; a simple walk across the lake during winter or a canoe paddle by summer. The air tight bush stove purchased at the Hudson Bay Company post in Little Grand Rapids provided the heat. In winter, the trip for moss was coupled with harvesting dry firewood. Often, it’s the Mashkiikwahtik (tamarack tree) that grows in the muskegs. Wood was piled on the toboggan and towed home while moss was stuffed in the pashkwewash (backpack).

Prior to 1973 there was no electricity service at Little Grand Rapids and Pauingassi. Bush stoves provided a perfect drying environment. Moss was hung overhead. The bush stove was also used to heat the frying pan which, together with the baby nearby, formed an efficient working triangle encompassing the moss, the frying pan (stove) and the baby.

At night, moss changes were performed with light from a kerosene lantern.

With electricity, much has changed. Moss is out, pampers are in and switches turn on lights.

Kihchiis Ihkwe was the eldest child and daughter of Miskwaatesi Oshkiishik and Kihchi Mohkomaan. Here is a profiling of her ancestry:

FATHER – Miskwaatesi Oshkiishik (Moses Owen). Moose Clan.

Grandparents (Mikwaatesi Oshkiishik’s parents)
Taami (Thomas Owen, Sr.) of Pauingassi First Nation. Moose Clan.
Oshiikaniish of Berens River First Nation. Pelican Clan.

Great grandparents (Miskwaatesi Oshkiishik’s grandparents and Taami’s parents)
Shenawakoshkank of Pauingassi - Ancestor of many of the Moose Clan in this region.
Chiikanaan (Mother).

MOTHER – Kihchi Mohkomaan (Alice Keeper). Sturgeon Clan.

Grandparents (Kihchi Mohkomaan’s parents)
Omootayi (Arthur Keeper) from Pauingassi. Sturgeon Clan.
Waashakaam from Little Grand Rapids. Duck Clan.

Great grandparents (Kihchi Mohkomaan’s grandparents and Omootayi’s parents)
Pasikwiikaapaw of Pikangikum and originally from Lac Seul. Ancestor of many of the Sturgeon Clan in this area.
Mahkokwe (Mother) was from Pikangikum and originally from Lac Seul. Bear Clan.

Kihchiis Ihkwe was the oldest child in her family. She married Kihchiis of the Kingfisher Clan.
A sister named Chachaank moved to Pikangikum where she married Nikiwinini (Henry King). Nikikwinini was a son to Kakikeyaashik, youngest daughter of Pasikwiikaapaw and wife We’we.

References:
Ochichaahkons (H. Neufeld)
G. Butikofer
Photo - Ochichaahkons

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11/14/2025

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Today it’s such a thrill to welcome back to share her most recent birth of her little boy. This image is taken from her first birth (you can listen to this in episode 411).

During her second pregnancy, Jessie discovered she was carrying unprocessed trauma that was creating anxiety about her upcoming second labour. Through the support of a birth trauma counsellor, her trusted doula, and extensive mental preparation, Jessie transformed her relationship with birth and welcomed son Leonis in a profoundly different and healing experience.

This episode is essential listening for anyone who has had a previous birth that felt challenging, even if it appeared “successful” from the outside. Jessie’s candid discussion about the shame she felt during transition, the impact of her doula being unavailable during her first labour, and how she worked through these feelings offers invaluable insights for expectant mothers preparing for subsequent births.

Tune into episode 582 where ever you get your podcasts.

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