02/19/2023
If Rihanna can headline the Super Bowl halftime show pregnant, women really can do anything.
I watched the half time show in awe. Not because of the music -- which I already knew I loved. Not because of the dancers who look like they were ready to hit the ski scene in Aspen. And not because of the crotch and butt squeezes (a pre-req for halftime shows these days, it seems). No, none of that is what I will remember in 10 years when I think about Rihanna's performance of her life.
I watched because this gifted, beautiful, artistic mother showed the entire world that women really WILL run this town tonight, tomorrow and forever.
Rihanna announced her pregnancy on the biggest stage in the world without saying a word. Instead, she performed.
If you are upset that the dancing wasn't exciting enough, that her movements were understandably careful, and that there were no guest performers, you are missing the point!
Rihanna did not cancel this performance because she was pregnant. Because women's lives and professions should not go on hold when a baby enters the picture. Women should not be expected to go into hiding when they are pregnant, or breastfeeding or over 25.
Nor did she undermine her role by adding musicians, excessive distractions, or shock value.
She embraced the position she is in. She performed, not in spite of, but as part of her roles as a mother. Her body, her voice and her role as a mother WAS the spotlight, and rightly so.
Rihanna, thank you for performing. Thank you for reminding people everywhere that pregnancy should be regaled. Watching you perform empowered every mother with the reminder that we can do anything, and should be supported as such.
Rihanna, I know the controversy is already exhausting. People love to hate the super bowl halftime show. But please don't stop the music. And today you showed us you won't.