Aaron Wilson, LPC

12/07/2025

S*xual problems rarely resolve until they’ve taught us what we need to know.

One of the most under appreciated aspects of s*x is how it reveals what’s underdeveloped in us or in our relationship. In this way, it provokes us to make changes we might not have made otherwise.

What if, instead of loathing a s*xual difficulty—low desire, an unwanted behavior, or anxiety—you got curious about why it’s showing up and how it might serve your growth if you listened?

S*xual challenges aren’t just problems to fix. They’re invitations to listen and kindly confront what we’ve been unwilling or unable to acknowledge.

Two examples from research and clinical work:

• Sheila Gregoire's team has highlighted higher rates of vaginismus among evangelical women compared to the general population. When a woman is trained to see her body as a temptation before marriage, her nervous system cannot simply flip a switch in marriage to enjoy s*x—especially when the script suddenly becomes, “Be available or your husband will stumble.” That’s not covenantal love; it’s nervous system whiplash.

• Men lacking a sense of purpose were 7× more likely to pursue unwanted s*xual behavior (Unwanted, 2018). Many of us fight to stop an unwanted pattern, but rarely fight to pursue greater meaning.

We need to grow in our curiosity for what what our s*xual problems are trying to communicate.

08/22/2025

Dr. Sue Johnson reminds us that attachment science offers a true roadmap for building a deep, secure connection. Love is about understanding our emotional needs, not chasing a perfect fantasy.

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08/20/2025

Survivors of abuse are caught off guard by friends and family who judge, shame them.

08/20/2025

We’re proud to spotlight Love is respect 💜

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Learn more and connect at www.loveisrespect.org.

07/26/2025

A baby's cry is not just noise. It is a biological signal designed to trigger a response from caregivers. When that signal is ignored, especially over time, the consequences reach far deeper than temporary distress. New research shows that consistently leaving a baby to cry without comfort can alter the course of their brain development, emotional regulation, and even future intelligence.

A large-scale Japanese study, following over 100,000 mother-child pairs, found a strong connection between repeated non-response to infant crying and measurable developmental delays. These children were more likely to struggle with communication, motor coordination, social interaction, and problem-solving by early childhood. The early months of life are a critical period when the brain is rapidly wiring itself, and responsive caregiving plays a vital role in that process.

From a physiological perspective, prolonged crying floods an infant’s brain and body with cortisol, the primary stress hormone. This stress response, when experienced regularly, can weaken the developing architecture of the brain, disrupt the formation of secure attachment, and increase the child’s risk of anxiety, aggression, and behavioural issues later in life. In some studies, chronic stress exposure in infancy has also been linked to lower IQ and academic challenges years down the line.

Contrary to popular advice about "toughening up" a baby or letting them "cry it out," science consistently points to the importance of emotional attunement in the early months and years. Responsive caregiving does not mean spoiling a child. It means recognising their cues, validating their needs, and helping them build a sense of safety and trust in the world. These are the foundations of emotional resilience and cognitive strength.

This research reminds us that babies don’t cry to manipulate. They cry because they are biologically wired to seek connection. When we respond with care, we’re not just soothing them in the moment—we’re building their brains for life.

Follow Minds Canvas for more insights into how science shapes the way we raise, nurture, and understand our children.

04/30/2025

How to keep violent p**n out of your home and away from your kids

All Things Considered on NPR One | 4:14

02/07/2025

Hello!
I am Aaron Wilson. I am a husband, father, and friend to my loved ones. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and serve clients across the state of Mississippi. I have a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy and a Master of Divinity.

I am in network with insurance companies including: BCBS, Aetna, Ambetter, United Healthcare, United Medical Resources, Optum, Highmark, Anthem, GEHA, and all other parts of these larger companies. I also take self pay clients.

I offer counseling to individuals and couples. I specialize in working with people who have anxiety, addictions, trauma, doubt, and relationship issues. I am honored to walk alongside my clients as they pursue healing.

I am committed to becoming a better man myself and am passionate about helping other men become better partners, husbands, fathers, and friends. I encourage my clients to get deeper into a healing community.

I have completed trainings in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Certified S*x Addiction Therapy, Prepare Enrich, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I am a Certified S*x Addiction Therapist.

Check out our website to schedule a first appointment.

Behavioral health therapy in Jackson, MS offering both in office appointments and Telehealth appointments. Paperwork can be filled out online. Online payments are accepted. Contact us at (769) 300-6129.

01/29/2025

Learning how to fight correctly is important in a relationship. Life Kit explains how https://one.npr.org/i/nx-s1-4861883:nx-s1-5330728-1

John and Julie Gottman

All Things Considered on NPR One | 3:53

09/19/2024

My wife, Sarah Linfield, and I are Licensed Professional Counselors and we see clients via telehealth across MS and in office in Jackson, Ms at our private practice called Embracing Hope Counseling.
We have availability for new clients. We work with men, women, and couples experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, relationship issues. We are in network with BCBS, Aetna, United Healthcare, Optum, UMR, UBH, GEHA, Ambetter, Lyra. We also take self pay clients.
Our office is located in Highland Village directly off of I-55 near Northside Drive and Meadowbrook Road exits.

We are taking referrals and would be happy to help new clients on their healing journey.

Behavioral health therapy in Jackson, MS offering both in office appointments and Telehealth appointments. Paperwork can be filled out online. Online payments are accepted. Contact us at (769) 300-6129.

05/29/2024

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