04/14/2026
🐺 It can be easy to become reactive with our inner world. By actively “feeding” our inner thoughts, emotions and habits that nurture, we can grow and move closer to mental and emotional wellness. Read on …
Health with the Hamels
Which wolf to feed?
By Clara and Justin Hamel
The Source Newspaper
We can learn so much from ancient wisdom, parables passed down from generation to generation, and oral and written stories that share values and tradition. Across cultures and civilizations, these words of wisdom often contain common threads that teach us about ways to view and interpret the world.
One of these stories provides insight into the inner struggles we all face. “The Tale of Two Wolves” delves into the choices we face between peace and compassion or anger and fear. It is a story shared from an elderly Cherokee grandfather, the face of wisdom and perception, to his grandson, the embodiment of innocence and curiosity.
~ The story is as follows:
An old Cherokee elder sits with a young child and says, “A fight is going on inside me. It is a terrible fight, and it is between two wolves. One wolf is evil—he is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego.
The other wolf is good—he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.”
The child thinks about it for a moment and then asks, “Which wolf will win?”
The elder replies, “The one you feed.”
This is a simple but powerful message—a message we can see reflected in many more fables and parables such as Plato’s chariot analogy, where reason must guide opposing internal forces, Buddhist teachings that compare the cultivation of weeds (the bad wolf) to crops (the good wolf), or Paul’s teachings on “the flesh desiring what is contrary to the spirit.”
By reflecting on these lessons, we see that our inner world is flexible. It is shaped by the thoughts, emotions and habits we “feed” daily. Choosing to nurture qualities like compassion, patience, gratitude and mindfulness strengthens our mental and emotional health, just as consistently tending a field produces healthy crops.
It is not about denying the “bad wolf,” but about seeing it as a temporary visitor rather than a permanent dweller. It is a fine place to visit, but it is not where we want to live. Everyone feels anger, fear or envy from time to time. That is being human. The key is not letting those emotions define you. Recognize them, observe them and mindfully choose how you respond.
This is balance, and the balance allows us to grow and learn needed lessons from the “bad wolf.” By nourishing and cultivating the characteristics, habits and perspectives that enrich us, we move closer to mental and emotional wellness.
The timeless guidance encapsulated in these stories provides insight into human nature and how we can harness it to provide growth, meaning and lasting well-being.
**Dr. Justin Hamel and Clara Hamel have a combined over 30 years of experience in health fields. Reach them at 1° Performance & Longevity, located at 46 N. Central Park Plz., Suite 101, in Jacksonville, on Facebook or by phone at 217-243-6358.