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03/10/2026

03/10/2026

Putting feelings into words does more than help you reflect. Brain imaging research shows it can shift activity inside emotional circuits.

The amygdala is often described as the brain’s threat detector. It helps you quickly respond to stress and uncertainty. When emotions feel intense or overwhelming, this region can become more active.

Studies using brain scans have found that labeling emotions — even briefly — is associated with reduced amygdala activity and increased engagement of the prefrontal cortex. The prefrontal cortex supports planning, reasoning, and self-regulation. In simple terms, writing about emotions appears to shift processing from automatic emotional reactivity toward more deliberate control.

Expressive writing research, including randomized controlled trials, suggests that structured emotional writing can reduce rumination and improve psychological well-being over time. When experiences are translated into language, the brain organizes them differently. What felt chaotic becomes structured, stored, and easier to reflect on.

This does not mean writing erases stress. It means the act of labeling feelings recruits regulatory networks that help the brain process emotional information more efficiently.

Even brief writing sessions have been linked to measurable changes in emotional processing patterns.

Source: Frontiers in Psychology; Mindfulness (Springer)

03/06/2026

We can’t fix an emotion we won’t look at.
In this clip, Dr. John Gottman shares a stance that can change conflict fast: curiosity. When our partner is angry, disappointed, or sad, we can meet it with questions and a real desire to understand, not dismissal, avoidance, or defensiveness.
Want the full conversation? Watch here: https://bit.ly/3NmACG9
Note: This advice does not apply in situations involving abuse.

02/27/2026

Impact matters more than intention. Just because you didn't intent it, doesn't meant you are absolved of accountability to repair any harm caused.

Some of the worst outcomes have been caused by good intentions.

02/18/2026

Learning Spotlight: Stages of Grief

Most of us have heard of the 5 stages of grief published by Dr. Kubler-Ross: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance.

What most of us don't realize is that those 5 stages were studied and published exclusively for explaining the emotional stages that an individual with a terminal illness might go through. They were not intended to be applied to other types of grief - Death of a loved one, empty nesting, job loss, retirement, etc.

While there are no agreed upon stages of grief, we do know there are common responses including:

Reduced concentration
A sense of numbness
Disrupted sleep patterns
Changed eating habits
Roller coaster of emotional energy

These are all normal and natural responses to loss and their duration is unique to every individual. Even while these are common reactions however, they do not appear in everyone who experiences grief.

Take aways: There are no absolutes in grief. There are no universal reactions, timeframes, or stages and that is totally normal.

For more grief resources checkout: "The Grief Recovery Handbook" by John W. James & Russell Friedman

Also check out our Griefshare Support Group here at Genesis Counseling: Thursdays 6pm-7pm. Call for info.

02/07/2026

As Valentines day approaches, consider how much the little moments matter in the day to day 💙

"It’s not the big gestures that keep relationships strong. Research shows it’s the small, repeated moments of connection that build trust, safety, and resilience over time.

The way your partner turns toward you.
The way they listen without fixing.
The way they protect time for your relationship.
These tiny rituals aren’t just sweet. They’re how couples build what the Gottmans call an Emotional Bank Account, making it easier to handle stress and conflict together.

👉 Click to read the full blog on how small rituals of connection keep love strong. https://bit.ly/4a3fYlU "

02/05/2026

Growth is not instant. We don't change overnight. It takes time, practice, and effort to become the version of ourselves we want to be. Plant the seed today. Nurture it tomorrow. And see what grows ❤

02/02/2026

"Feelings deserve respect, but they aren’t always a complete or accurate interpretation of reality.
Growth happens when emotions are acknowledged without letting them become the final authority on what’s true (also known as emotional reasoning). Pausing to question assumptions creates room for clarity, self-regulation, and healthier communication.
Over time, this balance between emotion and perspective becomes the foundation for trust, stability, and deeper connection."

Feelings deserve respect, but they aren’t always a complete or accurate interpretation of reality.

Growth happens when emotions are acknowledged without letting them become the final authority on what’s true. Pausing to question assumptions creates room for clarity, self-regulation, and healthier communication.

Over time, this balance between emotion and perspective becomes the foundation for trust, stability, and deeper connection.

02/02/2026

Please join us in welcoming Genesis Counseling Services Ltd as a new member of Forward Janesville!

Located at 1 S. Main Street in downtown Janesville, Genesis Counseling Services has been providing counseling, psychological and psychiatric care here in Rock County since it was established in 1988. They have a diverse group of clinicians from numerous backgrounds and specialties that are licensed professionals in the state of Wisconsin. They work in a collaborative, team-based approach, including consultation and collaboration between patient and therapist, prescriber, and -- if requested by the patient -- affected family members to develop a treatment plan in order to offer the best clinical outcome possible.

Give them a follow and learn more at https://hubs.ly/Q0408PFJ0

01/30/2026

B-LINE is the first-ever US-based 24/7 mental health and crisis support line specifically for the music industry. Whether you’re an artist, crew member, or music professional, help is out there for you. Call 855-BLINE99 or text 254-639 to connect with a trained counselor who understands the music industry.

01/30/2026

The goal isn’t to avoid discomfort. It’s to stay regulated enough to communicate and repair.

01/28/2026