07/30/2018
Friends,
Have you ever had a misunderstanding that ended in a fractured relationship or a fight you never intended to start? Have you ever thought you communicated something in one way, but it was perceived in another? Communication is much more complex than we think or give it credit for. Different facets of communication, like the spoken word, vocal intonations, body language, intended meanings, implied meanings and not the least, perceived meanings, among others, build the construct our minds depend on to decode and understand what another person is saying. Somewhere along the line, some conversations become derailed and end in a place that leaves the participants in a state of wonder.
We've talked about words more than once in previous letters. What I want to do today is to encourage you to be choosy when it comes to the words you use in your every-day deliberation. Here's the reason why. Words build our concept of reality. The accuracy of our view is greatly dependent on the words we use to describe said reality. In the foundation of this argument is the idea that intent predicates description. We can be relentless in our drive to be honest about what we see, or willfully engender lies, using words to construct what we prefer reality to look like as opposed to what it really does look like.
Truth is beautiful to those who have made it their friend, and an enemy to those who live in the shadows. For those truth is a friend to, it is like a warm blanket on a cold night, or a cool breeze on a hot summers day. It's a relief. The opposite is true for those who willfully oppose the truth, being forever restless, worried, and exhausted at trying to maintain the lie. There is no safe space. John 1:1-5 says, "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it." I love this verse. God ties the creative medium He used to create the universe to life itself. It seems to follow that words that are true are words that give life, even if words that are true hurt, and provoke change. In the end the words we use to construct reality are largely based on our love or hate for the truth.
Questions for you:
Do you love the truth over what you feel?
Do you believe that the power of life and death are in the tongue?
What are some areas that you have willingly believed lies in order to accommodate your desires?
Additional Reading:
John 1
James 3
Proverbs 18:21
Your Chaplain,
Jonathan Bond
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