04/25/2026
Tension in families doesn’t just disappear—it often gets redirected.
In Bowen Family Systems Theory, triangulation happens when a third person is pulled into a conflict to reduce stress between two individuals. While it may ease discomfort in the moment, it can create long-term patterns of miscommunication and emotional strain.
Healthy families learn to face conflict directly, communicate openly, and maintain clear boundaries—without pulling others into the middle.