11/09/2025
What’s something you wish you knew again that you knew as a kid?
We’ve been on the road for over two months now — four kids, one RV, zero dishwasher.
In the beginning, my husband did all the dishes. I happily let him. But somewhere along the way, I put on my big girl pants and said, “I got this too.”
And this week, as we stayed put for four nights in Northeast Texas — the longest we’ve stayed anywhere — I noticed something new: I actually enjoy it.
The warm water, the rhythm, the satisfaction of seeing an empty sink — there’s a quiet peace in doing something simple with your hands.
It’s funny because pre-kids, when my husband and I lived in a home without a dishwasher, the dishes caused our biggest tension. We’d argue over whose turn it was, both exhausted, both wanting to do anything but scrub plates.
But out here, on the road, I’ve realized — that’s not my version of success. I don’t want to escape the small things. I want to feel them.
Maybe that’s what we knew as kids — when we played “house” and “kitchen” and found joy in pretending to do exactly what we now call chores. Somewhere along the way, we forgot.
I’m remembering again. How about you?