Kypris Aster Drake MS, MA, California LMFT #141819

03/10/2025

Posting the flyer for my solo poly workshop. This is offered through my coaching business "love which" and will be a very small zoom group for 4-6 people. You can join this group from anywhere in the country, since it is not a therapy group! Please feel free to share with a friend who might want to learn more about how to practice polyamory in a way that helps them THRIVE. Class starts on April 7 (Monday) at 6 PM. if you're ready to go for it, you can sign up here:

Kypris is here to support you with relationship coaching for Poly, CNM, ENM, and LGBTQIA+ people. She offers support groups and individual coaching sessions.

08/27/2024

If you've ever struggled with New Relationship Energy (NRE) in an open relationship, here are some things to try...

08/14/2024

Some help for peeps who get stuck in patterns of arguing. Vulnerability is the key.

08/06/2024

In emotionally focused therapy (AKA EFT) we focus on patterns, feelings, and attachment needs more than communication or quick fixes. In Dr Sue Johnson's view the PATTERN is the enemy of your relationship.

This is just one example of a pattern. Check out her book "Hold Me Tight" to learn more.

08/01/2024

It's good to slow down now and then. What's your favorite form of self care?

07/24/2024

The true impact of trauma is only beginning to be understood. We're lucky to live in a time where so much help is available. 💕

07/17/2024

A client recently asked me"what counts as trauma?" This is my answer to her and to anyone wondering about this

06/24/2024

Here's a little sexual questionnaire to get you started with spicing soon up your love life. I hope it's helpful!

06/18/2024

For those who are struggling 💕

06/03/2024

So many of us worry that if we just looked different or somehow change ourselves, that this will make us feel better and make others want to connect to us. But the biggest changes start with learning to care for ourselves. ❤️

05/28/2024

Please excuse if this is a duplicate post. I'm a little Facebook challenged, and was sure I'd posted this last week, but it's not showing up in my previous posts, so I'm doubling down. It's really important to me to get the word out about my availability for taking insurance, since I work with an unusual group of people who often have trouble finding a therapist.

Who do I work with? I help LGBTQ and CNM people heal issues with relationships, sexuality, and negative life patterns using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Mindfulness.

I'm passionate about helping them find their way to me.