01/27/2026
Sleep is something that’s eluded me for years. I used to lie awake for an hour before falling asleep, then wake up in the middle of the night replaying the day and stressing about tomorrow’s to do list.
What I’ve learned is that sleep isn’t about trying harder, it’s about helping your nervous system feel safe. Breath has been one of the most helpful tools for me. This post explains why longer exhales can make such a difference if your mind won’t shut off at night. Worth a read if sleep feels hard for you.
🥱When your body won’t switch off at night, it’s rarely because you’re “bad at sleeping.”
👉It’s because your nervous system is still running daytime chemistry in a nighttime world.
🌬One of the best ways to signal safety to the body is through long exhalations
👉Breathing in for 4 and out for 8, practiced for just 5–10 minutes before bed, gently shifts your nervous system out of stress mode and into rest.
A longer exhale activates the parasympathetic branch of the nervous system, quiets sympathetic arousal, slows the heart rate, and improves heart rate variability.
As this shift happens, cortisol, the hormone that keeps you alert and wired naturally begins to fall.
👉Research also shows that slow breathing with extended exhalation reduces hyperarousal of the nervous system, a key driver of nighttime restlessness and insomnia. These physiological changes support faster sleep onset and deeper, more restorative sleep.
Extended exhalation breathing patterns are often used in the evening to help the body disengage from stress and release mental and physical tension.
Over time, this trains the nervous system to associate slower breathing with safety, making it easier to fall asleep and stay asleep without forcing relaxation.
✨Sleep isn’t something you think your way into.
It’s something your nervous system allows when it finally feels safe enough.
Follow for more science-backed breathing practices to support your nervous system and your sleep. 🌙