03/12/2026
Watching a loved one go through a healing journey can be one of the most challenging things we can in go through in a relationship. Knowing when to act and when to step back is not clear.
The most supportive thing you can do migh be to take these lessons from hatching chicks.
1. Don’t rush to judge your loved ones! Trust their process. Know that even when it doesn’t LOOK like it, outward growth is happening.
2. A healing journey can look like failing from the outside. When we trust the process we can see that the “failing” is where we learn what we are capable of.
3. Experiencing challenge allows us to clarify what’s really important and what we can let fall away.
4. Rest is progress. Chicks rest for hours at a time….which doesn’t LOOK like growing but is the most important part. That’s where they are integrating the strength they gained removing their barriers block by block.
5. We don’t know what’s happening for other people.
Fixing other people’s problems might actually be making it worse for them.
6. When you know that it’s not your job to save the chick, you are able to experience the miracle of watching the chick save herself.