Butler Meyers Funeral Home

04/14/2023

Mary Butler Meyers Funeral Home
Huge Estate Sale 4/15-19/2023. 10:00 AM
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03/29/2023

We want to thank you for honoring Mary Butler Meyers Funeral Home and trusting us to serve you and our community for over the past 118 years. We regretfully have ceased operations and are closing our funeral home. Again we have been honored that you had selected Mary Butler Meyers Funeral Home to serve you at the most difficult time of need.

01/19/2023

Let yourself feel some happiness today. Allow yourself to smile. You need to feel some joy to help you balance the pain you are working through right now.

01/07/2023

It can be surprising, even shocking, that others who had a relationship with the person you lost are grieving so differently. The fact that they are crying more than you, talking less, seem so contented, or any other difference is hard to understand.

The grieving process is hugely different among us all, even when we are working through the loss of the same person. One way is not better or worse than another...it is simply different. At times, trying to talk with someone whose process does not match your own might not be helpful. Instead, you may want to turn to someone who understands and appreciates your grieving process.

01/03/2023

Our condolences to the family and friends of Micha. May the memories of her love give you peace at this difficultl time.

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12/29/2022

You have to forgive yourself for all of the things you wish you'd done differently in your relationship with your loved one. If you had died first, he/she would have been facing this struggle instead. Would you want that? Forgive yourself so you can heal. Living your life is a gift to be treasured. Don't allow yourself to wallow in regret. Be the best person you can today to show you have learned from your past mistakes.

12/27/2022

Our deepest condolences to the family and friends. May your memories of Bob's love give you peace at this difficult time.

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12/16/2022

When grief is your every day, it's hard to imagine not having that weight on your shoulders. It's hard to fathom that there is even the possibility of a life without it. However, as it fades and your hope builds of a life free of that constant sorrow, know that there will be flare-ups. There will be a little reminder that brings it all flooding back.

12/15/2022

Your process of grief is not following anyone else's timetable. It may take you two years to feel like someone else does in two months. Think of when you learned to walk or learned to read or learned to drive. Everyone's timetable is different for every part of life. Grieving is no different. Be patient with your heart. You will grieve as you need to for as long as you need to do so.

12/09/2022

Grief sends us into survival mode: we do the bare minimum to exist because the majority of our energy is directed towards grieving. Do not spend time worrying about the details of your life that you may have neglected during the early days of your grief. Instead, choose one thing today that helps you feel more connected to your old life and do it.

12/08/2022

We are filled with such emotions about the person we lost and the relationship we lost. The feelings are so strong that we have to let them go by crying. Never feel shame in that.