08/11/2017
Do NOT watch TV or read articles about the one month anniversary of the fires today....
Secondary trauma occurs when an individual watches over and over again the pictures or reads the stories of a disaster. You just keep getting "re-traumatized" again and again.
The fact that the one month mark, will trigger feelings from the event on its own.
According to Zunin and Meyers (experts on Disaster Mental Health), and their timeline of how emotions get processed after an event, you may be leaving the "Honeymoon Phase" where there is a lot of support, a lot of hope and strong sense of community (one week to 3 to 6 months) to the "Disillusionment Phase". This time period lasts from 2 months to 1 to 2 years and can be filled with feelings of disappointment, anger, resentment, and depression. It is when the focus shifts from the sense of community to everyone beginning to do their own thing in trying to rebuild and to re-establish their own life.
Every anniversary will trigger memories so just plan ahead to make sure you are with friends and that you think through all that you have done in this last month.
This is the way that the human psyche processes such a major life event. This is normal and appropriate and it is very difficult.