Sanders Funeral Service

04/05/2026

He is not here — He has risen. Wishing you a joyful and blessed Easter.

04/02/2026

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑯𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝑩𝒆𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝑪𝒂𝒓𝒆: 𝑺𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒚 𝑺𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔
As the Office Administrator at Sanders Funeral Service, Shelley is often one of the first voices families hear and one of the steady forces working behind the scenes. She plays a vital role in ensuring every detail is handled with care and professionalism, helping support both families and staff through every step of the process.

When she’s not at the funeral home, Shelley enjoys working in her vegetable garden and attending her grandchildren’s events. Family time and the simple moments at home are where she finds balance and joy.

Many people are surprised to learn that Shelley had a career as a floral designer for several years, managing a shop in California. She also brings decades of medical experience to her role as a Registered Nurse for over 30 years and a Paramedic for 20, spending much of her career in emergency medicine, including five years as a flight nurse. She still works part time at Chisholm Trail Technology Center assisting with the training of future LPN’s.

Shelley hopes families leave Sanders feeling that their loved one was cared for beyond expectations and that they were treated like part of the Sanders family. She treasures the small-town feel of this community and the way people genuinely connect with one another. This line of work has reinforced her belief in cherishing every moment, planning the trips, gathering often, and capturing memories, because life is never guaranteed.

Guided by faith and a lifelong calling to care for others, Shelley’s path as a first-generation college graduate has been shaped by determination, compassion, and a heart for service.

We’re grateful to have Shelley as part of the Sanders team and community.

03/30/2026

After most funeral services, family and friends gather together for a time of food, stories, and connection.

It’s a space where memories are shared, tears are shed, laughter is heard, and support is felt.

While the service honors a life, the gathering reminds us of the love that continues. It’s a gentle transition, a moment to be together and to begin moving forward, surrounded by community.

Whether held at home, in a church hall, a park, or a reception room, there’s no right or wrong way to do it.

Potluck or catered, big or small, what matters most is doing what feels right for your family.

If you ever need help planning a meaningful time of remembrance and connection, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.
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03/26/2026

Chad’s "Magic" work is grounded in time-honored embalming techniques, learned from his father and developed through years of experience.

It’s a craft he takes pride in, and one he is honored to provide to every family Sanders serves.

03/24/2026

https://www.sandersfuneralservice.com/obituary/donald-boutwell

Donald James Bottles Boutwell, 83, passed away peacefully Saturday, March 21st, 2026 at his home. Born February 12th, 1943, to Dale and Rosie Lee Boutwell in Dover, Oklahoma, Donald lived most of his life in Kingfisher, Oklahoma. Donald was a loving dad, papa, brother and friend a talented musician....

03/23/2026

You don’t have to navigate it alone.

Relationships are what matter most in life and that belief is at the heart of everything we do.

You are our community, and you truly matter to us.

During one of life’s most difficult seasons, we’re here to walk alongside you through every step of the funeral planning process.

We are committed to you.

03/19/2026

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑷𝒖𝒓𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒂 𝑭𝒖𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒍 𝑺𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒊𝒄𝒆
When we experience the death of someone we love, a funeral service fills several important needs.

- Funerals help us acknowledge that someone we love has died.
- Funerals allow us to say goodbye.
- Funerals offer continuity and hope for the living.
- Funerals provide a support system for us, friends, family members and the community.
- Funerals allow us to reflect on the meaning of life and death.

If you or someone you love is facing a difficult time, we’re here to walk alongside you with care and understanding. Reach out to us whenever you need guidance or support.

03/17/2026

Today, on St. Patrick’s Day, we reflect on the rich traditions of Irish funeral service customs rooted in community, connection, and honoring life.

One of the most well-known traditions is the Irish wake, where family and friends gather, often in the home, to sit with their loved one, share stories, and support one another. It’s a time where grief and remembrance exist side by side, and where no one is left to mourn alone.

Many of these traditions carry quiet symbolism such as windows opened to mark a soul’s journey, clocks paused to honor the moment of passing, and gatherings filled with food, conversation, and reflection.

In ancient traditions, some cultures believed in a “sin eater”, a person who would symbolically take on the sins of the deceased so their soul could find peace. It was also said that tears should be held back until the body was prepared, out of respect for the soul’s journey.

Traditions may look different from family to family, but the purpose remains the same. To honor, to remember, and to walk alongside one another through life’s most important moments.

Happy St. Patrick’s Day. 🍀

03/16/2026

https://www.sandersfuneralservice.com/obituary/georgia-durst

Georgia Marie Banther Durst was born March 22, 1944, in Joplin, Missouri, and passed away March 15, 2026, in Richardson, Texas. She was born to Margaret Green-Spor and Thomas D***s. Her mother preceded her in death in 2006. Georgia attended Neosho High School in Neosho, Missouri. She later pursued h...

03/16/2026

https://www.sandersfuneralservice.com/obituary/genaro-padilla

With deep sorrow, but also with gratitude for the life he shared with us, the Padilla family announces the passing of Genaro Padilla, who departed surrounded by the love of his family. Genaro Padilla, originally from Acatic, Jalisco, and a resident of Kingfisher, Oklahoma, was a man remembered for h...

03/16/2026

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It’s not always an easy conversation but it’s one of the most loving gifts you can give your family. When plans are in place, your loved ones can focus on supporting one another instead of making difficult decisions during an emotional time.

No matter where you are in the process, just talking with family, researching options, or finishing your plans. Every step brings peace of mind.

If you’d like guidance or simply have questions, we’re here to help

03/11/2026

Today, we’re especially grateful for our funeral directors.

Chad, Rachael, and Dick — thank you for the long hours, the quiet strength, and the steady guidance you provide to the families and community we serve.

We are proud of the dedication and dignity you bring to your work each day.

Happy National Funeral Director & Mortician Recognition Day. 🤍