02/12/2026
Professional observation: Women joke about how poorly they prioritize self-care because we all know we can do better, but there are always fires to be put out, dinners to be made, conversations to be had, emotional environments to be managed and a million other tasks always waiting for us to address and prioritize.
Best case scenario: it all clicks one day, and we realize our regulated nervous system helps boosts the vibe in the whole house. A more balanced and nurtured woman is one that can more calmly address the chaos and enjoy the calm.
2nd best: someone in that woman's life sees them, hears them, and advocates for them.
Take care of the ones that take care of you.
Take care of yourself so that you can keep b being the person you want to be for those you love.
A massage may seem indulgent, and I do absolutely aim for some indulgence in my work, but it is also maintenance on a body and a nervous system that needs to downshift and regulate.