His Love Counseling Services

His Love Counseling Services We are Christian based para-professionals providing counseling for all ages since 1972. Buddy Scott is the Executive Director.

11/19/2025

👣For those who wonder how they are to walk with Christ during their sojourn on earth, I have two suggestions. Make every choice a Christ-approved choice and always litmus test your choices with this question: Will this heal?
Only follow through on the choices that are Christ approved and will bring healing to those with whom you relate. Those guiding principles will help you walk in his steps—taking the high road rather than the low road, getting better rather than bitter. -Buddy Scott

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11/12/2025

“The mouth of a good person is a deep, life-giving well, but the mouth of the wicked is a dark cave of abuse” (Proverbs 10:11, The Message Paraphrase).

“Who is the person who is desiring life? Loving days to see good? Keep thy tongue from evil, and thy lips from speaking deceit. Turn aside from evil and do good. Seek peace and pursue it” (Psalm 34:12-14, Young’s Literal Translation).

These verses explain what is so important in relationships:
“When someone is in your space, he or she is drinking from your well of wisdom, maturity, and spirituality. God’s will is for you to quench his or her thirst with kindness, faith, hope—inspiration. Your presence is to have a healthy and an encouraging ministry to him or her—the ministry of Christ.” -Buddy Scott

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11/05/2025

What I wrote in the 1980s remains in use today. The six catchy concepts are excellent because they build the maturity for kids becoming successful in the adult world. Explain them to your children and post them on the refrigerator for easy access.
1) If you are rude to the suppliers, you shouldn’t expect new supplies.
2) If you don’t do your part in the family, you don’t get family privileges.
3) If you mess it up, you’ll clean it up.
4) If you abuse it, you’ll lose it.
5) If you waste it, you’ll replace it.
6) If you want more than necessary, you’ll need to pay the additional amount of the price.
Once these are explained and displayed on the fridge, then guardians can say this to a child who misbehaved: “Read the disciplinary guidelines, decide which of the six applies to what you’ve done and tell us the consequence.” Say it matter-of-factly with no ugliness in your manner. -Buddy Scott

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10/29/2025

đŸ’„f you need healing in your life, pray that you will do what is vital to stepping into the healing flow of God’s River of Life. When we pray, we don’t get God up and healing. His healing is ever flowing; prayer moves us into his flow.
Pray that you will align your own life with God by letting “this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 2:5, New King James Version). That qualifies you for this essential verse: “The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil” (1 Peter 3:12, NIV). -Buddy Scott

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10/21/2025

"Truly see what there is to see. (quote by Buddy Scott)"
You can apply this to God. When you consider his ways, see what there is to see. Since Jesus said, “He that hath seen me hath seen the Father,” turn to him to know God’s ways. The integrity of God the Father and God the Son is the same.
If you are frustrated at God about anything, litmus test your feelings by seeing what there is to see in Jesus. Ask yourself: Would Jesus have done me wrong or let me down? Then neither did God. Relax into that trust.

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10/15/2025

We are responders, and our child is the
teacher. We will respond fairly to what our child teaches us.
You, as parents, are responding to what your children are teaching you. Therefore, you are responders and your children are teachers.
If your children teach you to trust them, you respond by honoring them with more freedom and privileges and appropriate appreciation (the natural result of trusting).
If they teach you to be suspicious, you respond by asking them more questions and watching them more closely (the natural result of suspicion).
If your children teach you not to trust them, you respond by limiting their freedoms and privileges (the natural result of loss of confidence).
It’s up to them. Your children are the teachers, and their great responsibility is to teach you to trust them.
(From the book, "Relief for Hurting Parents" by Buddy Scott sold on Amazon).

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10/08/2025

In marriage counseling, spouses swing between these two extremes: “You are acting OK enough for me or I am cursing mad at you.” In parenting, it’s a swing between these extremes: “You are not a bother to me at the moment or I am cursing mad at you.” A child toward parents: “Y’all are letting me do what I want to do or I think y’all are the worst parents ever.”
We’ve got to stop this extreme swinging: A spouse isn’t suddenly a waste because he or she forgot to go by an ATM. A child isn’t totally despicable because he or she left the kitchen a mess. A parent isn’t suddenly worse than all other parents because he or she won’t allow late-night texting. There is so much more to consider about everyone. The whole scenic view of life needs to be kept in mind.
Here are examples of self-talk that people need to generate within themselves: “My wife (or husband) makes a B+ in life although she (or he) forgot to drop by the ATM.” “My son makes an A- in life although he still forgets to close the lid.” “My father (and mother) still make a B- in life although he (or she) won’t let me hang out at the mall on Friday nights.”
Although something annoying has occurred, the “offenders” remain on the A-B honor roll and respect for them should be the filter through which we speak. -Buddy Scott

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10/01/2025

⁉Do you know your purpose and the plans God has for you to do for his glory?

Ephesians 2:10: "For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do".

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09/23/2025

Jesus created and healed. He didn’t afflict. Consider the word live. Get it backward, and it spells evil. Jesus is holy, and he can’t get it backward.
God’s habitations have no evil. In Eden before the fall, God didn’t inflict evil.
In the personhood of God’s incarnate expression of himself, Jesus, there is no evil. And in heaven, there is no evil.
Physical, emotional, social and spiritual problems are only a part of the earthly environment. Where the earth and humankind are below the design of God’s creation, problems are helter skelter, troubling both the just and the unjust.
Our world can’t be a place where we always reside in health and happiness. If we think it’s supposed to be, we set up ourselves for a lot of stress unto distress. Life here isn’t fair and stuff happens to all of us on our journey through here. Our situation and plight bring injury our way, not our Lord.
Christ is present to love us through whatever challenges we face. If we trust him to help us, he strengthens us, comforts us, heals us on earth or heals us with heaven. His courage is our courage. -Buddy Scott

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09/16/2025

📖In my book, Relief for Hurting Parents, I emphatically warn that the wrong crowd is family enemy #1. I include not only naughty peers within the label but also foul adults in real life, on TV and in the movies.
đŸ“ș🎞Kids are sponges. They soak up everything that they detect with their five senses. In addition, values are caught more than they are taught. -Buddy Scott

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09/09/2025

đŸ’„After 50 years of counseling experience, I know of no other way to deal with our jeopardy other than receiving the Christ who was with God during creation and holds out to us redemption—redemption from not knowing who we are, why we are here, for whom we live, in whose plan we are included and redemption from being perishable. -Buddy Scott

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09/02/2025

In the Old Testament, the “fear God” phrase means to have such immense respect and reverence for God that we faithfully do what he instructs.

Here is the “fear God” verse in Ecclesiastes from the Good News Translation, “After all this, there is only one thing to say: Have reverence for God, and obey his commands, because this is all that we were created for.”

Picture it this way: When driving on the levee, you have no problem if you drive the straight and narrow way; but if you drive off the sides, you are in trouble. Think of God’s pathway as the safe road atop the levee. Don’t venture over the sides because there are severe consequences similar to these:
Lying makes one unbelievable.
Stealing renders one undesirable in free society.
Injustice leads to avoidance and loneliness.
Backstabbing initiates rejection.
Speeding turns on the dreaded lights of state troopers.

Essentially, God is communicating in the Bible, “Stay close to me so that I can protect you from the painful consequences of evil.” -Buddy Scott

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