01/01/2026
If he hates his life, he will make yours miserable.
If he does not love himself, he will punish you for loving him.
Because an unhealed man doesn’t know how to receive love.
He only knows how to test it.
Destroy it.
Doubt it.
He will bring his anger home.
His insecurities home.
His unresolved trauma home.
Then call it “stress” while you slowly lose yourself.
He will make you feel like love is a battlefield.
Like you have to earn softness.
Like peace is something you’re not allowed to have.
And the truth is simple.
A man at war with himself
will never know how to love a woman in peace.
So don’t try to save him.
Don’t let his chaos become your normal.
Choose the man who is healing.
Choose the man who is stable.
Choose the man who protects your spirit.
Because love should feel safe.
Not like survival.