01/09/2026
The biggest difference I see in women who are successfully consistent with healthy eating and working out as a lifestyle are the ones who detach their motivation and effort from the scale.
The ones who recognize that showing up to take care of their bodies feels better than not, that it gives them more energy, increases their performance, improves their relationships, and decreases the mental chatter.
All of these positive benefits come from eating foods in amounts that nourish them and moving their bodies daily - and yet so many woman focus only on whether or not it’s changing their weight. WHY?! Because that’s what we’re being sold - every. single. day. Smaller is better.
How about - STRONGER is better!
The challenging part is that this takes patience. It requires you to put your head down and do the work no matter what. Does it have to be perfectly done, nope, but there does need to be intention to push past all the stories that keep you stuck. “I don’t have time, I don’t have energy, I don’t know what to do, I don’t know if it’s enough, I’m bored, I can’t do that, it’s too cold, it’s too hot, it’s too hard.”
All of those stories, that feel true for you right now, are biologically designed to keep you safe. They’re also what’s standing in your way of living a healthier and happier life.
If you keep starting over - good! That means you haven’t given up yet. But just know, that working with a coach who helps you discover what works best for YOU and get past the self-sabotaging patterns will absolutely improve the journey.
So invest in yourself. Get the clarity on what truly matters. Build the habits that lead to confidence. And then you’ll start to feel like you’re finally out of your own way! 💪🏼♥️