12/22/2025
đż Mindful Monday
The holidays can be so joyful⊠and emotionally heavy.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, sleepless, guilty, sad, lonely, or pressured to make everything âperfect,â youâre not alone. Holidays can stir up big feelings for a lot of us.
Here are a few skills to help you stay grounded this week:
đŹ Mindfulness â Pause and be where your feet are. Notice one thing you can see, hear, and feel. You donât need to feel festiveâjust present. Take a quiet moment to yourself, whether you practice prayer, meditation, or another form of grounding â this is invaluable.
đ Radical Acceptance â The moment doesnât have to be perfect. Your emotions donât have to match the holiday lights. Itâs okay to let things be as they are.
đ Opposite Action â When sadness says âwithdraw,â or anger says âretaliateâ or âcontrolâ, take one gentle step toward connection or movementâa quick walk, a text, a small check in, an apology, or a selfless act.
đ§ Check the Facts â Holiday pressure can amplify harsh thoughts. Ask yourself: Is this really true, or is this my emotion talking? Facts are often much kinder. Check in with a trusted friend, mentor, or family member â sometimes things arenât as bad as we think.
â€ïž Give yourself grace.
Whether this season feels peaceful, painful, or just downright unbearable ⊠your emotions are valid. Progressânot perfectionâis the goal.
Youâre doing the best you can. đ©”