04/25/2026
I’ve been thinking a lot about the word healthy lately and what it means to actually be healthy. It’s an abstract word that conjures a different image in everyone’s mind, and it’s fluid. What we would have called a healthy person in 1906 looks radically different from what we’d call one today.
Clinical health is measured using data across the average population.
Social media health is a bar most people won’t reach unless they quit their jobs and devote their entire lives to it.
The real answer is somewhere in between, and it’s deeply subjective.
Good healthcare is like picking the artist you love to decorate your home. Your friends might not like it, but for you, it’s perfect.
So where does that leave you, if you’re actually trying to improve your health?
Find a doctor who thinks of health like a creative practice. Creativity takes two essential things — curiosity, and the ability to listen. Healthcare has reached a turning point where practitioners need both in their toolkit. Patients aren’t settling for unanswered questions or status quo treatment plans anymore.
I treat both men and women, but this is especially true for women because, for most of our lives, women have been handed someone else’s definition of health. Their parents, their doctors, a magazine’s, or an algorithm’s. But now—for all my women out there—we get to define what healthy means for our own bodies.
For me, it’s simple, really. I value sleeping, thinking clearly, loving my body, and having the energy to go to the gym and give my kids the attention they deserve after work.