10/03/2024
So proud of my amazing client, who walked through every moment of her pregnancy and birth with assurance and trust in her intuition and faith. Even when she was having doubts thrown at her from every direction, she and her husband remained steadfast and made the choices that felt right to them.
It's a beautiful day for a VBAC story, isn't it? Meet Kelly, about her birth, she writes...
"For my first birth, I was told I had an 11lb baby. I was induced, I never dilated, and I experienced a botched c-section. After all the trauma, I didn't even want to hold our perfect little 7lbs baby. Yea, the ultrasound tech got it wrong. It took me five years to talk myself into getting pregnant again. I wanted more kids but the prospect of birth was triggering. If I was going to go through this again, I was going to do it my way. And I did! The best decision I made was hiring Elaine from Woven Wonders, my doula. She walked my husband and me through successful VBAC stories. She painted a picture of a labor experience that empowered me to let my body work the way it was designed. She prepared me for conversations with doctors and family members that didn't understand my priorities. For example, the OB we had to see at the midwife clinic suggested I get induced at 38 weeks! Ummm... no. My husband fielded phone conversations from well intentioned family members that explained the "dangers" of a going past my due date. Finally, after just over 42 weeks a membrane sweep kicked in labor. I needed a little Pitocin but was able to keep a relaxing atmosphere. After a few hours I had dilated to a 7 before getting an epidural! I didn't want one at first but it was right for me. I was able to rest for a few more hours before pushing my perfect girl out. The midwife laid her on my chest. With a clear, emotionally stable mind I was able to hold my little girl for the first time."