BYM Coaching

03/30/2026

My hot take about touch deprivation and how the current framework around it is more triggering than many suspect. Stop assuming that touch is the primary way to soothing your partner. Things like this should be discussed in depth BEFORE commitment. It’s triggering AF 😒🖕🏾. Be with someone who is in alignment with how your needs to be met. Everyone isn’t self aware and so many never get there. At some point, one has to respect and accept people where they are. When that’s inconvenient for you, love them from afar and find someone else who is receptive to your form of communication. Thanks for attending my TED talk. 😘

03/29/2026

This is one of the reasons that made me pivot into intimacy coaching. Intimacy and s€x are two different things. For many men, s€x is the only time they receive touch so it’s understandable why many lean so heavily on it. Non s€xual touch is necessary. Oppressive systems operate to keep you disconnected from your body. These skills can be learned, one has to be willing to grow. Ready to start your journey? Book a consult today, link in bio.

S/N: men, what is a reasonable amount of s€x?🤔

03/29/2026

Moaning let’s women know we’re doing sumthing right. I’m petty…. I’m a stop, get dressed and go home. Because what I’m not gonna do is have my time wasted.😒😠😤

03/29/2026

I’m loving how the younger men are having these in-depth conversations and making the correlation that certain behaviors are to impress other men, not women. What would it take to encourage men from Gen X and Millennials to recognize this? Drop your thoughts below 👇🏾

03/28/2026

Gentlemen, there’s no reason why any of you should be ashy. When you wear shorts 🩳, I expect to see smooth, touchable(w/proper consent) skin. And remember to exfoliate. Walking around like a prehistoric crocodile 🐊 is inexcusable 😒🚷. No excuses either.🙄😑 There are a plethora of🧴 brands marketed for men.

03/28/2026

Powerful message 😘

03/28/2026

There’s power in practicing semen retention. I’m just saying 🤷🏾‍♀️. Some folks need to stop emptying da clip. Mens life force(chi/ki) is tied to semen. Too many releases ages you.

Seminal Kung Fu - 10 Core Principles☯️
Save to Remember this Millenial Taoist Wisdom🙏

1️⃣The main purpose of Seminal Kung Fu is to use s*xual energy for attaining higher levels of consciousness - so that s*xual urge does not control the man.
2️⃣The dissipation of spiritual consciousness takes place chiefly through the expenditure of s*xual energy. Losing sp.rm lowers the energy reserves and reduces the amount of Chi produced.
3️⃣Sexual energy should not remain stuck in the lower centers. It must be transformed by moving upward - otherwise it can create trouble such as excessive s*xual urge.
4️⃣A great deal of s*xual functioning depends on the Water Element💧. The spiritual resource governed by water is willpower and ambition. The driving force behind the will to accomplish something comes from the clarity and purity of the Water Element.
5️⃣The structure of s.men and the brain is described as similar - so when s*xual power is used excessively, extra energy is taken from the brain. If s*xual urge is controlled and less s.men is expelled, the brain is nourished and its power increased.
6️⃣One of the methods for nourishing the brain is to circulate s*xual energy upward and store it in the brain🧠
7️⃣Sexual power is in the lower centers of the body, so it tends to flow down and be lost. To utilize it, it has to be made to flow upward mainly through the Governor Channel on the spine.
8️⃣To enjoy the benefits of Seminal Kung Fu, the practitioner is advised to cleanse the system of impurities - especially the liver and blood. Cleansing the system brings a state of purity and clarity which allows personal will to manifest in the world more easily.
9️⃣Preserving seminal fluid is to transform the personality spontaneously. Life is respected more, and there is less urge to kill, harm, and waste. Excessive expenditure of seminal fluid leads to craving for outer stimulation, premature aging, physical weakness, and illness.
🔟The harmonization of Yin and Yang leads to happiness, less anger, and a greater capacity to handle stress.

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03/27/2026

😬 this is why the or**sm gap exists. Pe*******on alone is NOT enough. Being hung like a 🐎 ain’t enough. Every woman is not the same. There are techniques that can make you a better lover. Are you up ⬆️ for the challenge?😏 Book a consult today. Link in bio.

03/25/2026

Bring back smelling good.😌 Wash 🧼 those pit, huevos, butt crack and sweaty feet 👣. (for some reason, y’all conveniently forget the feet 👣😬😒😷) One way to gain a woman’s attention is by smelling scrumptious. Buy something that compliments you🫵🏾. Body chemistry plays a big role so put some thought into it.

03/24/2026

We’re doing the work cha cha 💃🏽. Getting into alignment and shifting how relationships and society are moving. A glimmer of hope for humanity still exists. Y’all make 💩 so hard 😮‍💨.

According to Psychology modern relationships are evolving. According to psychology, the era of trauma-based bonding—where people connected through chaos, wounds, or survival dynamics—is beginning to decline. By 2026, many individuals are seeking conscious alignment rather than unconscious attachment patterns.

Trauma-based relationships often reinforce unhealthy cycles. Psychologist says early emotional wounds can create attachment patterns where intimacy is linked with drama, stress, or control. According to psychology, these patterns can distort love, leading to repeated conflicts and emotional instability.

Divine unions represent a shift toward conscious partnership. Psychologist says individuals are increasingly prioritizing emotional awareness, shared values, and mutual growth over past patterns of survival bonding. According to psychology, this approach strengthens trust, communication, and long-term relationship satisfaction.

Conscious alignment requires self-reflection, emotional intelligence, and active choice in partner selection. Psychologist says partners in aligned relationships recognize each other’s needs, boundaries, and growth potential. According to psychology, this intentional approach reduces reactivity and promotes healthier attachment behaviors.

Psychologist says as people embrace alignment over trauma, relationships become sources of support, stability, and joy rather than repeated cycles of emotional chaos. According to psychology, the rise of conscious love empowers individuals to cultivate lasting, meaningful, and fulfilling connections.

03/24/2026

Ohhhhh….. this is such a great quote. I remember in 2010, when I did i2tantra with Progressive Love Academy Kenya Kilolo Stone saying “S€x is not p**n.” 16 years later with all the technology at our fingertips, people are lonelier than ever especially men. Let’s talk about it ch’all. The only way things will improve is by having these uncomfortable discussions.

“Here was p**n so good, so varied, so ready to please, so instantly—insistently—available, that it led to a generation of men who think of p**n not as a backup to having s*x, but as an improvement on it,” Caitlin Flanagan wrote in March. “They prefer it”: https://theatln.tc/PBb8GFIu

03/23/2026

Gentlemen, listen and take notes on this message. He summarizes why feeling safe is so necessary for women. Women cannot embody femininity and fully experience pleasure without safety.