Siblings Against DUI

Siblings Against DUI Together lets put an end to drinking and driving. Negative ppl will be BLOCKED.

04/22/2026

just a friendly reminder: driving while high is also driving while impaired. alcohol isn’t the only thing that can affect your ability to properly operate a motor vehicle. dui is inclusive of all; alcohol, ma*****na, pills. be smart and make the right choices. driving while SOBER is the only safe way to drive.

today miranda should have turned 21. happy 21st birthday wherever you are. we love and miss you everyday. gone but never...
04/19/2026

today miranda should have turned 21. happy 21st birthday wherever you are. we love and miss you everyday. gone but never forgotten. LLM🦇🖤

03/30/2026

as life goes on i find myself still struggling with my grief. it’s one of those things where as more time passes it feels worse but the world continues to think “it gets better with time” but i find it to be quite the opposite. i was born in march of 2003, miranda was born april of 2005. we are 2 years apart in age. i do not remember life before her. my earliest memories she was always there. but my brain has trouble acknowledging we are no longer 2 years apart now. we are 7 years apart as of yesterday. this is something i’ve been struggling with all week, just accepting that as fact. i had to work on my birthday (worst decision will not do again, f**k customers who i told have a great day and just nodded when it was MY birthday but anyways) and as i usually do i was listening to music in the car before my shift started. i have very fond memories of when i first learned to drive miranda was always my favorite passenger. one memory in particular she played the song beautiful by eminem and we just sat there and listened to it. that song came on while i was sitting in the car and i found myself imagining she was sitting passenger to me like before while listening to the song. even in moments of grief i find it quite nice to “play pretend” as if she was still here, next to me, just listening to a song in the car. do whatever silences your grief no matter how silly. grief is selfish and when you accept that, it makes dealing with it a bit easier.

happy st. patrick’s day!🍀remember to drink responsibly and don’t drive if you’re under the influence of ANYTHING!! have ...
03/17/2026

happy st. patrick’s day!🍀
remember to drink responsibly and don’t drive if you’re under the influence of ANYTHING!! have a safe holiday.
be smart, be safe, drive sober.🍀

03/15/2026

wanted a place to post about this and that was kind of the whole reason behind this page. while i was at work today my managers were talking about some kids that i guess got into a fight last night and got onto the topic of fighting in general. my gm then asked me, “haley have you ever been in a fight?” and i said “i mean yeah with my sister. she punched me in the face and hit my nose so i had two black eyes for like 2 weeks.” he then was like “omg she hit you so hard you had two black eyes?” and i laughed and said yeah. my other manager then asked me, “she’s probably single right?” to which i bluntly responded “no she’s dead.” their jaws dropped. my gm said “how did this go from a funny situation to sad? are you messing with us haley?” and i laughed and said “no she really is dead.” my other manager then got quiet and told me “im really sorry.” i wanted to share this because it was in that moment i got really sad, and that doesn’t happen often anymore when i talk about her. i tell stories about her all the time but i never really share about her being dead. grief is sneaky like that. one minute you’re laughing about a story related to them and the next you’re fighting back tears telling yourself “stop it. you’re at work. finish your shift.” that just hasn’t happened to me in a long time and it was not a fun feeling. anyways i’ll continue telling stories about miranda, i just don’t wanna talk about her being dead anymore.

02/28/2026

thank you for everyone’s support of this page, i truly cannot express how much it has meant to me. however im going to be gone from it for awhile. i still have big plans for what i want to do to heal myself in my grief by taking the initiative to do what i can to protect kids and families from the harms of drinking and driving. i will be back when i have figured all of that out. until then please, make your own posts, spread awareness. be the voice that screams to the world to stop drinking and driving. i cannot do it alone and i do not want the sole purpose behind your awareness to just be miranda. there are hundreds of thousands of victims of drinking and driving and their lives matter too. don’t spread awareness just for my sister, but for your family and friends too so we can protect them from a fate like this. be safe, be smart, drive sober.

-haley

a conversation i wish i could have: hey. this year is going really good for me. we got a place that i really love, we go...
02/21/2026

a conversation i wish i could have:

hey. this year is going really good for me. we got a place that i really love, we got a new car that’s really nice and when i start driving again maybe you can ride passenger like you always used to do with me, oh and i’m getting married this year. weird right? looks like you won’t have to deal with me crying to you about anymore boys which i’m sure makes you feel better. now you can’t call me a fat w***e anymore, gotta call me a fat wife now lmao. adelynn is so grown up now. she tells me that she misses you, we all do. and guess what?? heather became a teen mom like we always used to say she was going to. a real life debbie haha. also the whole family moved out of leavenworth thank god. i’m assuming you’re out there somewhere living your best life. did you ever save up to get that car you were telling me about? what job did you get? are you and anissa still together? did your hair grow out so you could fix it cause i know the last time we talked you weren’t happy with your haircut. i’m sure it looks a lot better now. everybody is changing and growing up, its not the same. mom and dad don’t drink anymore. they’ve been sober since the accident 4 years ago. you’d like dad now, he’s really fun to be around. mom still talks about you everyday and moment she gets a chance. the rest of us are trying to move on with our lives. stephanie and david bought a house! they live so far away now but they seem really happy. i think most of us are finding ways to be happy again. i finally starting laughing at things again, it took awhile but im finding the joy in life. idk, i know this is a lot to read but i just wanted to give you an update. i miss you miranda, i still have the same phone number so if you ever want to reach out you can find me. i’ll never stop searching for you though.o

02/14/2026

somebody LOVES you. please make smart decisions this weekend and plan ahead!! if you’re going to drink don’t drive!! we all have someone waiting on us to come home. don’t be the person who takes that away. have a LOVELY weekend🩷🤍❤️

01/22/2026

5 years ago today..i was sitting at home and realized i missed miranda. instantly i got in my moms car and drove all the way to anissa’s house just so i could see miranda. there was zero reason other than me missing her. it’s a feeling ive felt so many times and i used to be able to act on it by getting in the car and going to her, or messaging her, or calling her, or going upstairs to her room just to stare at her and then walk out. i cannot begin to express how much i would give for a day like this again. missing her and being able to just go see her. now when i miss her i talk to the sky, or send her a message on instagram that every time i find myself checking to see if she’s read it knowing she never will, or worst of all going to the f**king cemetery to sit on the grass and talk to the ground hoping she can hear me. it’s just so exhausting coming to terms with the fact that i will never stop missing her and craving her presence only for it to never be satisfied. always searching for her soul hoping she’s somewhere nice and happy. it’s those weirds part of grief where all i can do is f**king hope and beg there is an afterlife because please tell me i will get to see her again. to tell her all she missed and how much i really loved her. how special she made me feel when she wanted to hang out with me. idk im rambling at this point and im tired of wiping my eyes so i can see to type so yeah thats all.

01/21/2026

i have this idea for what i think could be a really impactful way of spreading awareness on drinking and driving. my issue being i’m so worried i lack the necessary skills to pull it off right. i’m going to try. i came up with this idea months ago but life became busy and now my deadline is even shorter to pull it off. i guess worst case scenario it gets delayed but idk.. im going to really try. i’m just hoping i have the support of you guys when the time comes!! i don’t want it to flop as this idea has kept me up many nights unable to sleep. the burden of a creative mind i guess. coming up with something really good but not having the time to create it! sorry this is just a rant but i have things in the works! i promise my lack of posting isn’t because i don’t care! i’m just conserving my energy for what will be my toughest project yet.

i know i said i was going to try to keep up with posting on here more but i’ve just been at a mental pause recently. not...
01/16/2026

i know i said i was going to try to keep up with posting on here more but i’ve just been at a mental pause recently. nothing has changed, i still miss miranda, i still get triggered by any mention of drinking and driving, i still find myself stumbling through life without her. it’s been a weird thing dealing with grief at such a young age. and no i’m not talking about your “yeah i lost my grandma/grandpa” grief. i’m talking about losing someone i should have NEVER lost at 18 years old. i never once imagined my entire adulthood would be living with grief for the rest of my life. i often wonder what she’d be doing now with her life. would we still be close or have drifted apart? i’m trying to find the normalcy in my life but it’s weird. i think i’ve drifted out of denial and accepted she’s not coming back but i think im stuck in the anger portion of grief. i just try not to think about it too much and then i find myself on nights like these staying up too late going through her social media. then i wonder would she still have those posts up today or have deleted them or archived any? would she still be dating anissa? would she have grown her hair out or kept it short still? would her style have changed at all? her 21st birthday is approaching and it’s just yet another reminder of a major life milestone that she’s missing. it’ll be 5 years since she passed this year and that in itself feels like a lie.

happy new year’s eve!! this was miranda’s last new year’s eve she ever got to celebrate and she celebrated with me. yes ...
12/31/2025

happy new year’s eve!! this was miranda’s last new year’s eve she ever got to celebrate and she celebrated with me. yes we were drinking which is completely ironic, but we did it inside the home without the intention of leaving. her and i drank and celebrated the beginning of the last year she would ever be alive. i am not against drinking, what i am against is making stupid decisions while drinking like deciding to drive. we were all teenagers once who decided “hey let’s drink alcohol cause it’s cool!” a time filled with many dumb decisions but we NEVER thought to leave the house while drunk. even while being stupid we were still smart enough to know that drinking and driving is dangerous. i haven’t really drank since that day other than little sips of stuff here and there. however i am grateful i snuck giving her alcohol, im glad i did all the “grown up” stuff with her when we were teenagers because we both didn’t know she’d never get to do it as an adult. this isn’t a post to spread awareness. this is a post to say i miss my sister and i wish badly her and i could’ve celebrated like this again while legal adults.

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