03/29/2026
Recap: What to Do When It’s Not Fair by Jacqueline B. Toner
‘What to Do When It’s Not Fair’ helps children understand the strong feelings that arise when they compare themselves to others or feel someone else has something better. During session, we used a pirate “spyglass” to demonstrate how focusing too closely on another ship’s treasure can make us forget the treasure on our own ship — a powerful metaphor for comparison and jealousy. The book supports children in recognizing these thoughts, slowing down emotional reactions, and learning how to shift their focus toward gratitude, fairness in context, and personal strengths. A meaningful takeaway: sometimes the feeling of “not fair” comes from where we place our attention, and widening our view helps us see the good that already exists around us and within us. 🌊📖✨