01/28/2026
~Charlene Winston~
Today I'd like you to meet Charlene.
Hooray for Hollywood! Our next resident to meet was born there.
Charlene is a rare gym. She is genuine, loving and dedicated, to name a few. She reminds me a lot of my own mother. Charlene moved to Meadowlark in March of 2025. She loves living here. She said she knew the very second she saw her room that this was to be her home. She has made some very close friends with lots in common with her.
Charlene is filled with love for her brother, Ralph aka Bubba aka Bub. She just adored him. She has so many stories about them together but I only have space for a few. While Charlene was living in Venice, California. She had to be right around 5:00. Her brother and her went to the canal. Bubba was younger than Charlene. They were watching the fish from the sidewalk next to the canal when Bubba fell in. Charlene was scared and looked up to see a couple coming across the bridge. She said " oh my baby Bubba ". And the man without question, handed the groceries to his wife and jumped in. He saved Bubba. As he got older, his name shortened to Bub.
At that same canal, Charlene taught Bubba how to catch fish. Well kind of. She told me they would put bread in a court jar and tie a rope to it. They would then drop it down into the water and wait for a fish to swim above it. When that happened, they would pull the jar up. Only the weight of the jar broke the rope, every time. Needless to say, there are quite a few jars in that canal.
In the sixth grade, she was living in Paramount, California. Her mom worked at a restaurant at an ice skating rink. Charlene and Bubba were on the ice all the time. In fact, Bubba was Pacific Northwest speed skating champion 2 years in a row. And Charlene was a figure skater. She did this for 3 or 4 years. One day, a recruiter for the ice capades came and asked Charlene to participate. And she said " no ". She was just too shy. This is absolutely one of her regrets.
Bubba passed away at the age of 43 after a battle with cancer. When he found out that he had cancer he bought a DeLorean. You know the kind of car that the doors lift. Was it a statement piece? Yes, and why not! This is what he wanted. He had worked as chief engineer of Dreyer's ice cream. When he got sick, they supplied him with all the ice cream he wanted. Charlene was incredibly close to Bubba and his death devastated her.
Charlene's mother was working on the film gone with the wind. She dyed dogwood blossoms for a scene in the movie. She had to dye them twice to get the desired color they needed. Well watching the end of the movie when Clark Gable says, " frankly my dear, I don't give a damn ". The door is open and if you look through the fog there are the dogwood blossoms that her mother dyed on the tree. They are a little hard to see as she herself had to watch it five times before she saw them.
Have you ever experienced Divine intervention? This is a prime example of it. I asked Charlene who her role model was. She said it was her dad. Her father was in the Navy in World War II. They had orders to leave that day. Just before loading the ship, her father got new orders. He was ordered to go somewhere else. Would you believe that the ship left port that day and was torpedoed at sea. With no survivors. He was incredibly lucky. And if that's not some type of divine intervention, then I just don't know what is.
Charlene said her first job was working as a sales clerk at Anita's dress shop. She was paid hourly but also would earn commission on her sales. One day an inebriated gentleman came into the dress shop. He purchased a necklace for his wife. Charlene was to receive the commission. The very next day, then now sober gentleman came back to return the necklace. Charlene got to keep the commission even though he returned it.
It's a small world, they say. Because it really is. Charlene had a best friend all through high school. They invited their mothers to come to the senior mother's tea. When they both arrived and met up, it wasn't the girls giving hugs, it was the moms. The mothers of both of these girls went to school together in Oklahoma. Can you believe that? See, a small world indeed.
Charlene got married in 1960 and after 20 years, they divorced. She had four children. Raised all of them in Albany. She was a hands-on mother. She stayed home when her children were little. She always had time for her kids. Her daughter Teresa, lives close by and visits religiously. Charlene says she loves and appreciates Teresa more than she will ever know. I called Teresa on the phone and asked her to describe her mom. Teresa said quite simply that Charlene was the kind of mom that everyone wanted. They had friends in and out of the house all the time and Charlene loved every one of them. One night Teresa and her friend Wendy had a sleepover. They were right around 7:00. They slept in the backyard. Upon waking, they realized that a slug had went through Wendy's hair and tangled it into a nest. Charlene spent most of the morning brushing the slug out of that long blonde hair. Can you imagine the patients that took?
Charlene remembers taking her kids on a trip to Disneyland. Her son had been working on a paper route and saved his money to buy her a Madame Alexander Cinderella doll. He paid $10 for it. And it's now worth 500. She still has that doll displayed in her room.
Have you ever wanted to build your own home? Will Charlene have the chance and took it. While living in Wi******er Bay with her boyfriend, Tom, they built their dream home. It took a year to build. It was overlooking the Salmon Harbor. This house is quite simply amazing. It was sold a number of years back. Crazy to think it cost them $85,000 to build and right now it's worth $653,000. It was a modest three bedroom two bath home. They lived in this home for 11 years before selling it. Charlene kissed the door as she left for the very last time.
Here are some extra facts, just because. The movie Grease was filmed at the high school she graduated from. Her father was in the Navy and stationed in Saipan. She retired from mervin's after 16 years. Would you believe she stood in line for 4 hours to apply for that position. Of course, she was hired on the spot. Charlene has a connection to butterflies as she felt free as one after her divorce. Her great grandfather was a prisoner of war. She misses the music from her era.
When asked what she is overcome, she simply stated having her knees replaced. She didn't have just one but both. She did one one year and the other the next year. She said she all but forgot the pain because her knees felt so much better afterwards. She has regained use of both knees and is happy that she had them replaced.
Charlene is very social at Meadowlark. She plays bingo a few times a week. And one of those times not too long ago, she got a bingo. Not just any bingo though. I had only called five numbers. Everyone was shocked. I've never seen that happen. So I told her she needed to play the lottery. I regret to inform you that her luck did not follow her to the lottery.
I really hope you enjoyed learning more about Charlene.