04/23/2026
Be Vulnerableโฆ instead of angry. ๐ฉทโค๏ธ๐งก๐
๐๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ฝ ๐จ๐ป๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐
Anger is addictive and powerful, and no one wants to let it go. That includes me. Why? Itโs your bodyโs final defense mechanism. There is nothing else. It not only physically protects you but masks uncomfortable emotions. This diagram depicts many of them. Since we are not taught other means to protect ourselves from mental pain, we cannot let anger go easily.
Many years ago, I was working with a middle-aged gentleman who was on Workersโ Comp for chronic low back pain. As he worked through my website and book, Back in Control, his back pain significantly lessened. About three months into the process, he walked in and said, โI am getting depressed, and I would rather be angry than depressed.โ He walked out, and I never saw him again.
Depression is simply a set of symptoms driven by anxiety (vulnerability). Letting go of anger allows for more anxiety. Unless you have tools to lower your stress physiology, raw anxiety is intolerable. You may feel many, if not most of the symptoms on the chart.
The DOC Journey teaches you strategies to shift your bodyโs chemistry from fight-or-flight to safety. The process requires about 10-20 minutes a day, and no more. Repetition is needed to embed these tools. Over three to six months, many people find significant relief from mental and physical pain. Also, when you are angry, your thinking brain is not fully functioning, and you are asleep. Letโs Wake Up!