KC Life Counseling

02/21/2026

02/21/2026

Avoid This Massive Relationship Mistake - https://youtu.be/jgSyMoD0P74

02/19/2026

May children always know they have a voice and that it matters. 💛

02/19/2026

It’s ok if other people don’t get it. Just be a good person, and make a good life for yourself. ♥️ ~ Nanea

02/14/2026

Look at how far you have come. Look at all the things you are handling. You are doing a great job and you deserve to acknowledge your own awesomeness.

02/14/2026

Play is their language.

02/14/2026

It’s way past the hour of accountability that we start teaching personal responsibility instead of blaming and shaming young women.

What if I told you purity culture was never really about purity?

Purity culture is a system that teaches girls their bodies are dangerous, distracting, and responsible for boys’ thoughts. It tells women to cover up, shrink down, and carry the moral weight of male desire. Meanwhile, boys are often taught to “guard their eyes” without ever being taught to examine their entitlement, emotional immaturity, or distorted theology of s*x.

It polices her clothing but rarely confronts his character.
It shames her body but excuses his lust.

That is not holiness. That is misplaced responsibility.

At its core, purity culture externalizes sin. It locates the “problem” in a woman’s body instead of addressing the deeper issues of objectification, power, emotional repression, and a lack of formation in men. And the fallout is real. Women grow up disconnected from their bodies. Men grow up disconnected from accountability. Shame replaces maturity. Fear replaces intimacy.

We do not create healthy disciples by teaching girls to manage boys’ impulses.
We create healthy disciples by teaching men self-control, empathy, and respect.

Holiness is not about hiding women.

If this resonates, share it. The silence around this has lasted long enough.

02/14/2026

Use your words!!