11/15/2025
This is such an important concept that we all often neglect.
Our individual peace is so important.
What we spend our energy on is something that we decide upon.
Living defensively is exhausting.
We all deserve better than that.
Finding and maintaining our peace is the gift we can give to our children as well as ourselves. ❤️
One of the most valuable lessons we can give our children is to protect their peace — to understand that their calm, their space, their energy are not things to be freely handed away.
But protecting peace isn’t about hiding from life; it’s about learning what to let in. It’s a steady center they can return to — not a reward they earn by keeping everyone else happy.
Teach them to notice what drains and what restores, to pause before reacting, to choose which voices get a front-row seat in their mind. To set kind but firm boundaries — both online and in the world — so their hearts don’t live on other people’s timelines.
And remind them: protecting peace doesn’t mean avoiding what’s hard. It’s not a free pass to skip responsibilities, or turn away from discomfort or growth. They can still show up, do the work, and have the tough conversations — without abandoning themselves in the process.
Because real peace isn’t avoidance; it’s discernment. It’s knowing that a wise no protects the yes that matters.
And that’s how they’ll stay whole — even in a world that keeps asking for pieces of them. ❤️