11/12/2025
Having little ones in your 40s is interesting. It's amazing how much perimenopause feels like postpartum and how it can be challenging to know what-is-what and how to support oneself.
Extreme fatigue, sleepless nights, brain fog, mood swings, missed me**es, and unexpected weight gain - could be postpartum, could be stress, could be perimenopause.
In your forties, you're also, often, well into your responsibilities at work, at home, even caring for aging parents. It's an incredible time for your most significant hormonal change to start smacking you in the face. All these demands makes it even more challenging to distinguish if life is just more overwhelming or if you're finally catching the consequences of self-neglect or if maybe this is perimenopause. And if so, what is there to do, just muscle through and hope to get to the other side as unscathed as possible?
Perimenopause can begin as early as your mid-to-late 30s and last anywhere from 4 to 10 years, most often, but for some women, as long as 20 years post-menopause!
I'll admit, I am really loving this season in life.
I am learning about myself more, finding more time and space to care for myself, and really grateful to have so much life behind me and hopefully, a significant amount of vitality in front of me.
Having spent most of my career caring for women in their mothering years, I am now really enjoying midwifing women through menopause. If you are loving your Crone season or want to love it - circle up with me to discuss all things Wise Woman.
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