12/28/2025
I’ve often been someone who lived in his head—
recycling thoughts, replaying conversations, worrying about what’s next.
Not only is that exhausting, it takes a real toll on the body.
That mental loop is common when the nervous system has been living in chronic stress—especially for people with perfectionist tendencies.
What I’ve learned (and continue to practice) is that the way out isn’t thinking harder.
It’s shifting into the body.
When you notice tension—
a clenched jaw, tight fists, shoulders creeping toward your ears—
that’s not a flaw. It’s a protective response.
Gently softening those areas sends a different message:
I’m safe right now.
And when the body feels safer, the mind naturally loosens its grip on the past and the future.
This is how we ground into the present moment.
This is how healing begins—one breath, one small release at a time. 💙