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11/08/2025

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11/05/2025

Elizabeth P Marr
October 25, 1932 – November 1, 2025

Mrs. Elizabeth “Betty” Polk Marr, 93, of Chapin, SC passed away on Saturday, November 1, 2025. She was born October 25, 1932 in Walterboro, SC to Edgar E. Polk and Susie McLane Polk. She grew up in Varnville, SC where she met her husband, Raymond L. Marr, and they married January 16, 1950.

The most important things in Betty’s life were Faith and Family but she was an accomplished professional as well. Betty retired in 1974 as Assistant Vice President with First National Bank of SC, working in the Personnel Department. Some of her favorite things were seeing the leaves change in the mountains of NC every October, the annual family week at the beach with the Brown family from Atlanta, the Polk Thanksgiving family reunion in the low country, Christmas and Birthdays. She was a very active member of Chapin Christian Community Church (formerly Chapin United Methodist Church) where she loved her Christian Fellowship Sunday School Class and singing in the Adult Choir. She especially enjoyed participating in the Christmas Cantatas. She was a graduate of the Disciple Bible Study, a member of the United Methodist Women and on the Bereavement Committee. She organized the Susannah Wesley Circle and the Flowers’ Circle. Betty was also very competitive from the time she was young. She was the Captain of the girls’ basketball team at Varnville High School. She enthusiastically played competitive tennis until not too many years ago and assisted in organizing the Chapin Women’s Tennis Quads. She was an avid bridge player and played regularly in many groups. Betty also had a creative side and enjoyed being a member of The Chapin Garden Club.

Betty is survived by one son, Raymond “Ray” L. Marr, Jr. (Sue) of Columbia, SC, daughter, Annette “Ann” Marr of Lexington, SC, two grandsons, Raymond “Lee” L. Marr, III (Jeni) of Lexington, SC, Jonathan “Jon” E. Marr (Emily) of Horse Shoe, NC, five great grandchildren including Lennox and Elliot of Lexington, SC and Eleanor “Nora”, Cecilia “Ceci” and Clara of Horse Shoe, NC, her sister, Virginia “Dickie” McClure (Frank) of Varnville, SC, brother William Polk (Ginny) of Beaufort, SC, Sister-in-Law, Ellen T. Polk (Douglas) of Roanoke, VA as well as cousins, nieces, nephews, greats, grands and other extended family too numerous to possibly list.

She is predeceased by her beloved husband of 75 years, Raymond, her brother, Edgar “Gene” Polk and his wife Riley Claire “Sissy” Polk, brother Douglas “Doug” Polk and his first wife Lucy Schamber Polk and her Brother-in-law, Frank McClure (Dickie).

A Celebration of Betty’s life will be held on November 9, 2025, 2:00 pm at Chapin Christian Community Church.

In lieu of flowers, any donations in Betty’s honor to Leeza’s Care Connection, 201 St. Andrews Road, Columbia, SC 29210 (or LeezasCareConnection.org) are appreciated.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/elizabeth-marr-12590838

11/05/2025

George Woodrow "Trey" Stoudemire III
February 26, 1970 – October 20, 2025

The Lexington community mourns the loss of one of its notable and well-loved residents. On October 20th, 2025, George Woodrow “Trey” Stoudemire III passed away at the age of 55. The sudden and unforeseen nature of his death is met with disbelief and great sorrow. Trey was deeply devoted to his family and friends and will always be remembered as a caring husband, father, son, brother, nephew, cousin, colleague, and friend.

Trey’s trademark was his incredible smile. Known as the life of the party, he brought cheer and laughter to any gathering. Due to his good-nature and jovial personality, strangers quickly became friends. Trey’s generosity and willingness to help others were evident in every aspect of his life. Whether lending a hand to someone in need or sharing words of encouragement, his kindness touched countless lives.

Trey was born in Stuttgart, Germany during his father's military service. Proud of his German roots, he enjoyed Oktoberfest and often made many new friends at these celebrations. Revisiting his birthplace as a young man was one of his most cherished experiences.

Trey’s adventurous spirit led him to be an avid and exceptional hunter and fisherman. His hunting skills were fostered at a young age by his grandfather, Robert Lindler. He became a skilled angler under the guidance of his “Pop,” Woody Stoudemire. One of his most notable experiences was a big game hunting excursion in South Africa.

During his youth, he and his father engaged in various pursuits together, including quail hunting within the state and goose hunting in Maryland. He once traversed a drained pond to successfully snag an eight-pound bass with a net. Additionally, he enjoyed regularly watching and attending NASCAR events.

Married for twenty years, Trey met the love of his life, Phillis, on a blind date. Upon their marriage, Trey became a nurturing stepfather to Jason and Ricky. In 2008, the family was blessed with the birth of their son, Robbie. As a loving family man, Sunday dinners were a regular event that he always looked forward to. Often, he would bake his renowned rum cake to everyone’s delight.

As lovers of the local music scene, Trey and Phillis attended numerous concerts and festivals in the area; usually accompanied by their dear friends Bubba and Monica Cooper. They were quite a foursome. Trey’s love of music began in the Lexington High School chorus and as a performer with the Golden Blues. Few knew he could actually sing and dance!

Trey was employed with Beverage South as a sales representative doing what he loved; visiting his clients who all affectionately knew him as the Red Bull man. He earned salesman of the year twice and won numerous salesman of the month awards.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Dale Lindler Stoudemire, his aunt, Ellen Stoudemire, and his brother-in-law, Johnny Stasney. Trey is survived by his loving wife, Phillis Stevens Stoudemire; his son, Robert “Robbie” Woodrow Stoudemire; his stepsons, Jason and Ricky Geddings; his father, George Woodrow Stoudemire, Jr.; his sisters, Amy Stoudemire and Erin Whitehead (Brian); his sisters-in-law, Rosalyn Rodgers (Andrew) and Allyson Stasney; Shirley Amick, who held a special place in his life, and Bubba, whom he considered a brother; as well as numerous grandchildren, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

The family offers their sincerest gratitude to all those who reached out in so many ways. Your acts of kindness and prayers offered much comfort and were greatly appreciated.

Trey will be remembered for always being himself. Unlike many who try on different personalities, he never wanted to be anyone but himself. It has been said: “To thine own self be true, and it will follow that thou cannot be false to any Man.” Rest in peace and may you have many more adventures until we meet again.

Visitation with the family will be held Sunday, November 9, 2025 from 2 PM - 5 PM at the Caughman-Harman Funeral Home - Lexington Chapel. A private graveside service will take place, and we ask for your understanding and support during this difficult time.

Memorials may be made to the American Diabetes Associations at https://diy-diabetes.donordrive.com/campaign/trey_stoudemire or to the South Carolina Wildlife Federation at https://scwf.app.neoncrm.com/forms/online-donations-1?campaignId.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/george-stoudemire-12576227

11/05/2025

Larry E Kyzer
February 20, 1942 – November 2, 2025

Larry Edison Kyzer, 83, of Lexington, South Carolina, passed away on Sunday, November 2, 2025. He was born on February 20, 1942, in Lexington to the late Berley and Martha Hallman Kyzer.
Larry was a lifelong resident of the community he loved and even resided on a portion of what was his grandfather’s land. He was a member of Round Hill Baptist Church and, along with brothers Loyd and Tommy, was a longtime co-owner and operator of Berley’s of Lexington.

Larry was preceded in death by his beloved wife, N. Faye Kyzer just a little more than five months ago; their infant son, Larry E. Kyzer Jr.; his parents; and his brothers/spouses: E. Loyd and Flossie Kyzer, Tommy and Patricia “Sis” Kyzer, Johnny Kyzer, and Ray "Midnight" and Sandy Kyzer.

He is survived by his sister-in-law Margeret Kyzer, brother-in-law J.W. (Faye) Howard and numerous nieces and nephews who will remember him with affection and miss him dearly.

Larry was a homebody and enjoyed the simple pleasures of life. He found joy in tending his garden, fishing and relaxing under the shed with a Budweiser in hand—a quiet ritual that brought him peace and contentment. Larry also enjoyed helping his family in any way he could.

Visitation will be held on Sunday, November 9, 2025, at 2:00 p.m. with the service to follow at 3:00 p.m. at the graveside at Lexington Memorial Cemetery.

Memorials in his memory may be made to Round Hill Baptist Church Manna House.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/larry-kyzer-12593112

11/05/2025

Ellie Rose Spurr
December 6, 2021 – October 22, 2025

Our hearts are forever broken by the sudden and unexpected loss of our precious daughter, Ellie Rose Spurr. Though only three years old, Ellie filled every moment of her life with boundless joy, curiosity, and love.

She was the cherished daughter of Robyn Greif and Charles Spurr and the beloved little sister of Addisyn, Avery, Abel, Abram, Anabelle, Arlo, Amelia; Tristian, and Micala. Though her physical presence is gone, her essence remains in every sunrise, every laugh that echoes, every moment of kindness shared in her name.

Ellie loved Ms. Rachel, Bluey, music and dancing, coloring, going on walks with her big sisters, Blue’s Clues, and listening to Taylor Swift records with her mama. Her laughter could light up a room, and her tender heart made everyone around her feel seen and loved. She was endlessly smart, deeply sweet, and full of wonder—a beautiful soul whose light will never dim, and will forever be mama’s baby.

Though her time here was heartbreakingly brief, Ellie’s life was radiant. She brought color, music, and laughter into every day, and she taught all who knew her the meaning of pure, unconditional love. Her spirit will live on in every song, every shared smile, and every moment of joy that she inspired. Ellie’s life, though brief, was full. She taught us how to love without condition, to find beauty in small things, and to live with open hearts. We will carry her with us, always—our sweetest dream, our brightest star, our forever love.

A celebration of Life will be held on Friday, November 7, 2025 at 1:00 pm at Caughman Harman Funeral Home - Lexington Chapel. A visitation will follow the service.

The family welcomes all expressions of sympathy in remembrance of sweet Ellie, including flowers during this most difficult time.

Forever our sunshine, forever our Ellie Rose.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/ellie-spurr-12586871

11/05/2025

Neil Britton Yarrington
December 5, 1932 – October 29, 2025

Neil Britton Yarrington, 92, of Lexington, South Carolina passed away on Wednesday, October 29, 2025. He was born on December 5, 1932, in Gary, Indiana to the late Thomas and Marion Britton Yarrington.

Neil was a graduate of Glen Allen High School in 1950. He was a Veteran Army Paratrooper having served in the Korean War era based out of Fort Bragg, North Carolina. Neil was an avid Indy Sprint car fan. He built hundreds of model race cars and despite his health, spent most of his spare time doing so until shortly before his passing. Neil was a civil war buff, collecting extensive memorabilia. Neil was a lifetime Washington Redskins fan. He never once referred to them as the Commanders. Neil resided with his daughter, Martha Ann, and her family for the past six years. He had the joyful fulfillment of seeing up-close, his grandchildren become adults, along with his great grandchildren laughing, learning, and playing in their early months and years of life. Neil was a loving, loyal and kind son, brother, father, uncle, father-in-law, grandfather, great grandfather, friend, and neighbor. All who knew him loved him for his humor and jovial personality.

Neil is survived by his daughter, Martha Ann Nicholas; son-in-law, Stephen Wayne Nicholas Jr; grandchildren, Ronald Britton Wells, Sydney Faith Nicholas, and Stephen Drake Nicholas; great-grandchildren, Waylon Alexander Wells and Sophia Noelle Davis. He is survived by his five nieces, Margaret, Mary Lou, Laura, Linda, and Dawn, all who adored him. He had two incredible caregivers, Nikita and Vicky, the past few years that he loved like family.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Marian Davis Yarrington just eight months ago; stepson, David William Dunagan; brothers, Thomas, and Ray Yarrington along with each of their spouses; nephews, Thomas Yarrington Jr. and Donald Plante; niece, Robin Goffi Davis and Neil’s parents, Thomas and Marion Yarrington.

A Celebration of Life for Neil will be held at 2:00 p.m. on November 8, 2025, at The Nicholas Home 230 Leventis Lane Lexington, South Carolina 29072

Memorial contributions may be made to the Wounded Warriors Project at https://support.woundedwarriorproject.org/Default.aspx?tsid=10043

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/neil-yarrington-12586081

11/05/2025

Carolyn M. Keck
October 2, 1949 – October 21, 2025

Carolyn Marie Keck, 76, of Leesville, South Carolina passed away peacefully on October 21, 2025. Born on October 2, 1949, in Maple Heights, Ohio, Carolyn’s greatest joy was her family and friends.
As a mother of three and a grandmother of seven, Carolyn was the heart of the Keck family. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend known for her smile, kindness, and generosity. Her kitchen was the gathering place for dinners, holiday and birthday celebrations, baking with her grandchildren, and entertaining friends. Carolyn’s cooking was well known in her community. Everyone looked forward to enjoying her delicious appetizers, dinners, and baked goods. It was comfort food at its best.

Carolyn had a knack for remembering every birthday, anniversary, and important date in the lives of everyone she cared about, never failing to send a card or make a call. Her homemade cakes and frosting were legendary, and she delighted in sharing her recipes.

Carolyn’s heart was most full when all her family was together at her home on Lake Murray. She delighted in the sounds of laughter, conversation, and joy echoing throughout a full house. She treasured the time playing (very competitive) card games around the table, movie nights snuggled on the couch, and boat rides in the evening sunset after one of her heartwarming meals.

During baseball season, Carolyn would be rooting for her beloved Atlanta Braves. She seldomly missed a game, staying up into the wee hours of the night at times. One of her highlights in life was being able to see the Braves win the World Series in 1995 at Atlanta-Fulton County Stadium.

Carolyn is survived by her husband John, their children, Allyson (Greg), Jay (Natalie), and Christopher (Kristen) and their families.

A memorial service will be held on November 8, 2025, at 2:00 PM at Caughman-Harman Funeral Home – Lexington Chapel, 503 North Lake Drive, Lexington, SC 29072, with visitation to follow. The family will be sharing some of Carolyn’s cherished recipes and family stories, ensuring that her legacy of love and togetherness continues for generations to come.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/carolyn-keck-12569184

11/05/2025

Ronald A. Cathey
September 29, 1944 – November 1, 2025

Ronald Allen Cathey, 81, of Lexington, SC died November 1, 2025. Born in Lexington, KY, he was the son of Ted W. and Jessie Gibbs Cathey.

He grew up in Lexington with his sister and graduated from Henry Clay High School in Lexington, KY in 1962. He entered the University of Kentucky on a partial Journalism scholarship and served as the school’s Assistant Sports Publicity Director until his graduation with a Bachelor of Arts in Education in 1966. At that time he was commissioned a 2nd Lieutenant in the United States Air Force, having completed the ROTC Program there, graduating with honors. He was assigned to the flying training program for Navigators at Mather AFB, Calif., graduating in 1967. His first assignment was to Charleston AFB, SC to the 41st Military Airlift Squadron, flying the C-141 aircraft. While there he met and married Susan Elizabeth McGee. Later that year he transitioned to the C-5A aircraft as part of the initial cadre and was assigned to the 3rd Military Airlift Squadron at Charleston, SC. In 1973, he was reassigned to the 21st Tactical Fighter Training Squadron at George AFB, CA to transition to the F-4. Upon completion of the course, he was reassigned to the 67th TFS at Kadena AB, Okinawa in Sept. 1974 as a Weapon Systems Officer (WSO) flying the F-4 aircraft. In 1977 he was transferred to the 36th TFS at Osan AB, Korea as an Asst. Flight Commander of a squadron providing a deterrent to aggression against the Republic of Korea. In this role he flew F-4C, D, E and slated E aircraft. Upon completion of this remote tour, he was reassigned to the 3rd Military Airlift Squadron (MAC) at Dover AFB, DE flying the C-5A transport aircraft. He served as a Flight Simulator Instructor, Flying Instructor and Plans Officer. In 1982 he was reassigned to Langley AFB, VA to the 1st Supply Squadron (TAC) as the Wing/Base Management and Procedures Officer. He served in this position until being reassigned to the 50th Supply Squadron (USAFE) Hahn AB, Germany in the summer of 1984 as the Assistant Chief of Supply. In May of 1985 he was returned to flying status as the 50th TAC Fighter Wing’s Chief of Radar Strike Division where he was responsible for managing the wing’s tactical weapon nuclear strike program to include inception, development, employment and maintenance of all task and contingency targets. In 1988 he was reassigned to the North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO), 4th Allied Tactical Air Force Europe in Heidelberg, Germany as the Assistant Chief of Staff Logistics, responsible for all logistics in peace and war, to include Plans and Policy, Infrastructure, Civilian & Military Cooperation, Fuel, Supply, Transportation, Maintenance and Medical/Health Services, supervising an international staff of US, German and Canadian personnel. In 1991 he was reassigned to the 31st Logistics Group (TAC), Homestead Air Force Base, FL as the Deputy Commander for the Group, retiring in 1992 from the United States Air Force. During his career, he completed many training courses and schools, including Squadron Officers School, Intelligence Officers School, National Security Management School and the Air Command and Staff College. Additionally he graduated Suma Cum Laude from the University of Southern California, receiving his Master of Science in Education. He received numerous awards and medals; among them were the Defense Meritorious Service Medal, Meritorious Service Medal w/ 2 OLCS, Air Medal, AF Commendation Medal w/3 OLCS and Vietnam Service Medal w/6 OLCS. Upon leaving the Air Force he worked for the Budget and Control Board in the Department of General Services, State of South Carolina as an Assistant Director, overseeing the State’s mail, federal & state surplus and supply systems.

Through his life he was active in numerous Masonic organizations, serving as Master (President) of Hunsruck Lodge No. 839 Raversbeuren, W. Germany, and as the District Deputy Grand Master of District No. 1 of the American Canadian Grand Lodge of Germany. He was a 32nd degree Scottish Rite Mason; and in the Masonic York Rite Bodies received the Order of a Knight Crusader of the Cross (KCC) and was inducted into the Knights of the Cross of Honor (KYCH). Additionally, he was appointed by the Grand Chapter of Kentucky Royal Arch Masons and the Grand Council of Kentucky of Royal and Select Masters to be their representative to the Grand Council of Germany. He also served as Master of The Universal Brotherhood Lodge of Royal Ark Mariners No. 1518, under the Grand Lodge of Mark Master Masons of England & Wales and its Districts and Lodges Overseas. He was a Shriner, belonging to Jamil Temple, Columbia, SC. He was a Deacon at Saxe Gotha Presbyterian Church in Lexington, SC.

He is survived by his wife of fifty-five years, Susan McGee Cathey. He is also survived by a son, Blake Gibbs Cathey (and wife Amy) of Lexington, SC, and a daughter, Kelly McGee McWatters (and husband Dennis) of Boiling Springs, SC. Also five grandchildren Logan McWatters, Aubry McWatters Clark, Allen Jones, Madelyn Cathey, and Josh Cathey. He is also survived by a sister, Kate S. Cathey of Lexington, KY.

A celebration of life will be held Friday, November 7, 2025 at 1:00 p.m. at Saxe Gotha Presbyterian Church with Reverend Helen Harrison Ham officiating. The family will receive friends after the celebration of life in the church Fellowship Hall.

Memorials may be made to Lexington Masonic Lodge #152, in Lexington, SC.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/ronald-cathey-12590471

11/05/2025

Ann Taylor Cuza
April 21, 1957 – October 29, 2025

Ann Taylor Cuza, 68, of Lexington, SC, unexpectedly went to be with the Lord on October 29, 2025. Ann was born on April 21, 1957, in Florence, SC, to the late William “Billy” Samuel Taylor, Jr. and Rachel Benton Taylor.

Ann was a graduate of the University of South Carolina earning a bachelor’s degree in nursing. She worked as a Registered Nurse in several departments within the local community for 36 years.

Ann was best known for her love of her family, her pride in her grandchildren, her infectious sense of humor and being the life of the party. She was also known for her dedication and love of all animals, which included her four earthly dogs: Mia, Marley, Timber and Tyson, as well as numerous fur babies that have crossed the Rainbow Bridge.

Ann cheered enthusiastically for the University of South Carolina Gamecocks and the Kansas City Chiefs (namely Travis Kelce whom she enjoyed watching).

Preceding her in death were her parents; granddaughter, Kinley Cuza; and stepson Robert “Bobby” Cuza.

Survivors include her daughter Kristen (Grant) Cuza and son Taylor (Lindsey) Cuza of Lexington, SC; sister Nancy Bozard of Lexington, SC; a stepson Christopher Cuza, and grandchildren Landon Cuza, Kenna Cuza, Scottli Cuza, Bexley Haskins and Kollie Haskins. She is survived by a niece Elizabeth Graham, nephew Brian Bozard, and her grand-nieces and nephews: Noah, Juliana, Megan, William, Eliza and Sullivan. She is also survived by her former husband and the father of her children, Bobby Cuza, who remained a lifelong friend; her Uncle Paul Benton, a close cousin Beth Benton, and a small circle of dear friends who meant the world to her.

Please join the family as we remember the laughter and love Ann brought into our lives. A visitation will be held at 10:00 A.M. on Thursday, November 6, 2025 at Caughman-Harmon Funeral Home, Lexington Chapel, 503 North Lake Dr., Lexington, SC 29072. A private family service will follow.

In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests memorials be made to Final Victory Animal Rescue at 919 North Lucas Street, West Columbia, SC, 29169; The Humane Society at 405 Greenlawn Drive, Columbia, SC 29209, or your favorite local animal rescue.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/ann-cuza-12587500

11/05/2025

Lynn Benson
May 27, 1942 – October 19, 2025

James Lynn Benson, age 83, passed away on October 19, 2025, with his loving wife by his side, enveloped in the love of his girls. Lynn was born on May 27, 1942 in Charlotte, North Carolina, to William Randle Benson and Muriel Louise House Benson.

Lynn was a loving and devoted husband, a beloved father and grandfather. He was affectionately known as Papa Lynn, not just by family but also by friends, teammates, their children, and even caregivers.

Growing up in Charlotte, Lynn played football and baseball from 8th grade through graduation at Wingate College. He was the starting pitcher and star running back at Harding High and left fielder and running back at Wingate.

Following his graduation from Wingate in 1962, he continued his education at East Carolina University where he was a member of the Lambda Chi Alpha Fraternity. Upon graduation, Lynn began his career with Union Carbide as a salesman.

For the next 40 years, he worked in the tire industry, owning his first business in Columbia, SC. He held various sales and management positions, and ultimately retired from American Tire Distributors. Following his retirement, he purchased a tire supply business, Wise Tech Supply, and enjoyed growing that business and cultivating relationships with new and former customers. He fully retired in 2018.

Many of his associates have described Lynn as a legend in the tire business. He was highly respected in the industry for his work ethic, knowledge and "in just the way he took care of his people”, whether they were co-workers or customers.

Lynn showed his appreciation for his co-workers, employees, teams, family and friends with his love of hosting events, taking pride in grilling chicken wings, making Beaufort stew, hot dogs, and sometimes a great steak. He was a pro at pulling together annual reunions of his Wingate baseball and football teams, whether in the stands or out behind right field or the goal posts.

He was one of a kind and not just in the eyes of the Lord, but in the eyes of those who truly knew and loved him. This was evident in his volunteer work. He coached and mentored many athletes in marathons and triathlons. He raised funds for the Leukemia Society's Team in Training. Lynn served on the Bulldog Club Board of Directors at Wingate and was the Inaugural Team Ambassador for Football and Baseball. He helped everyone achieve their goal; it didn't matter if it was for a waitress from a New York City restaurant, a young man he met on a cruise ship, or one of his nurses from the Heart Hospital. He built their training plan.

In retirement, he enjoyed planning and traveling to events for his children and grandchildren. He was a master planner down to the last detail. He is best known for his GTTMRO trip. This was an 8,000 mile road trip around the USA. His goal was to "go til the money ran out", leaving his pockets empty, and holding only a bologna sandwich.

Lynn was private and humble. He did not allow himself to be the recipient of all he gave. Yet, he was the first to spring into action when he heard of anyone being sick, injured, hurting or in need.

Towards the end of his life, Lynn encountered many health challenges. He faced each of those challenges like he did everything else, with a fighting spirit.

His greatest pride was his love of his wife, daughters and granddaughters, his girls.

Lynn lived his life according to Acts 20:35 ..."there is more happiness in giving than in receiving."

Lynn is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 26 years, Robin Taylor Benson; his loving daughters, Missie Mansfield (Russ) and Carol Ann Hood (Robbie); and his granddaughters, Anna Mansfield, Sarah Mansfield, Caroline Hood Briley (Ryan) and Cameron Hood.

The family extends their heartfelt gratitude for all the prayers, love, and support. A special thanks to all his caregivers.

There will be a service at the Gazebo at Woodridge Memorial Park, Lexington, SC at 2:00 PM, November 5, 2025. A Celebration of Life follows from 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM at the Corley Mill House and Gardens, Lexington, SC.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts can be made to the Lynn and Robin Benson Athletic Scholarship Fund at Wingate University, c/o Cristi Slape, P. O. Box 159, Wingate, NC 28174, or to the charity of choice.

https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/lexington-sc/lynn-benson-12569853

11/01/2025

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10/23/2025

Josefina "Josie" Bacani Valentine
April 19, 1951 – October 18, 2025

Josefina “Josie” Bacani Valentine passed away peacefully on Saturday afternoon in Lexington, South Carolina, surrounded by her family. Her favorite song was “You Are My Sunshine,” and her loved ones sang it softly to her as she took her final breath—just as she had brought warmth and light to so many hearts throughout her life.

Josie was born in Jalung, Porac, Pampanga, Philippines, to Maria Malit Bacani and Felix Bacani. She was one of seven children—Resurreccion (deceased), Lourdes, Rogelio, Herminia, Irene, and Fernando (deceased)—and carried the love of her family and homeland with her always.

She made her home in Ladson, South Carolina, where she shared 44 devoted years of marriage with her late husband, William Valentine. She is survived by her son Robert Burrell Valentine and grandson Trevor Burrell Valentine, her daughter Jane Ann Valentine and son-in-law Sung Lee. Josie remained deeply close to her beloved family in the United States, Canada, and the Philippines, keeping their bonds strong through letters, long calls, care packages, and endless love.

A compassionate caregiver, Josie worked for many years as a Certified Nursing Assistant at Lifecare of Charleston, where she was honored as an award-winning professional known for her patience, generosity, and gentle humor. Her devotion to others was not just her vocation—it was her gift.

At home, Josie found joy in gardening, cooking, sewing, and crocheting, filling every corner of her life with color and care. No one ever left her home without being offered something to eat and something to take home. She was the truest embodiment of welcome and love.

Josie will be remembered for her radiant smile, quiet strength, and boundless generosity. She was, and will always be, her family’s sunshine.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to Josie’s caregivers and hospice team for their compassion and gentle care, and to her beloved dog, Sally, whose faithful companionship brought her comfort and joy every day.

Friends and loved ones are invited to share memories, photos, and messages of condolence on the Caughman-Harman Funeral Home website, where Josie’s light and love will continue to be celebrated.

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