10/11/2025
Understanding your Attachment Style to Improve the Quality of your Relationships with Self and Others
Attachment Theory was developed by John Bowlby and was a theory that has been long studied which focuses on the relationship between a child and caregiver. The research shows that how we emotionally bond, how we interact with the caregiver, as well as the responsiveness of our caregiver to our needs as a child through each developmental stage can have lasting impacts on the foundation of how we develop attachments within our relationships as adults. John Bowlby categorized these into four attachment styles, which include:
-Secure attachment
-Anxious attachment
-Avoidant attachment
-Anxious avoidant (also known as disorganized) attachment
Understanding our attachment style can help us learn about why we may respond, behave, and form certain types of relationships with others. It can also help us recognize changes that may need to occur to form a more secure attachment within our interpersonal relationships. Working with a therapist in counseling can be a great tool to work towards building a more secure attachment style.
To read in more detail about each attachment style, click link to read: https://www.counselinglexingtonky.com/understanding-your-attachment-style-to-improve-the-quality-of-your-relationships-with-self-and-others
If you are ready to find understanding of your attachment style and improve connectedness within your relationships, call our office at 859.338.0466 to schedule an appointment to work with one of our providers. Our current offices are located in Lexington, Frankfort, and Richmond, KY. We have been trusted mental health professionals in Central Kentucky for nearly 25 years!
Supporting articles:
https://www.attachedthebook.com/wordpress/about-the-book/
https://health.clevelandclinic.org/attachment-theory-and-attachment-styles
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10047625/
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-attachment-theory-2795337
https://positivepsychology.com/attachment-theory/
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