Better Place Counseling, Carey Kalkwarf, LICSW

10/18/2025

10/16/2025

What an honor to speak tonight at the No Footprint Too Small, NonProfit Wave Of Light event, and to walk alongside the journey that is grief.

When the days feel heavy, may you find gentleness with yourself.
When the world feels too loud, may you find quiet spaces to remember.
And when you wonder if anyone sees your pain, may you feel this truth- that healing is possible, even here in the shadow of heartbreak. You are not alone.
May your love continue to lead you forward.

09/09/2025

Instead of just “lowering expectations,” try:
Clarifying them (Did I ever actually say what I expected?)
Adjusting them (Are they realistic for this person?)
Letting go of control (Can I be okay even if they don’t meet them?)

That’s why it’s so frustrating when someone you love isn’t living up to what you “see” in them.

Because it’s what you see. It’s your projection, not theirs.

The only person whose potential you can truly bet on is your own.

So stop pouring all your energy into who you think someone else could be, and start focusing on who YOU are becoming.

06/03/2025

Hope to see you there❤️ open to any questions anyone might have too- just DM me!

The next No Footprint Too Small monthly meeting is in 3 weeks.

We offer them to parents who have experienced the loss of a pregnancy or infant. The purpose is to provide a safe and understanding space to share experiences and feelings, ask questions and find comfort.

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05/28/2024

Cue “Closing Time” by Semisonic.

Closing the doors on the L Street office door. I will always hold a special place in my heart for this place, as this is where it all began. This is where I built my business, built relationships, shared special sessions with clients, and gained insight and knowledge. But, when one door closes, another opens. I’m so excited to be moved into my NEW office space (see my page for details). Here’s to another new and exciting chapter for Better Place Counseling!