02/08/2026
I’m not a mental health therapist. My license is in addiction and working through all the “stuff” connected to it. Self worth, shame, guilt, loss of purpose, loss of self, resentments, rebuilding relationships. This list goes on and on. Myself, and our amazing staff likes to think of ourselves as a futurist. I don’t process trauma, or treat SPMI’s. I help you understand how to move forward with it and not letting it settle in your soul as your identity. I support you in the here and now, now what, how can we move forward. Self medicating isn’t the answer it is the problem.
Working in inpatient treatment milieus over the last 22 years and sitting in all the continuous behavioral health trainings. Listening, working, and learning under some of the best behavioral health professionals tends to educate you more (in my opinion) than any classroom can. Meshed in with my own personal experiences, it has taught me why I’ve never wanted that responsibility. Labels heavily influence how we view ourselves, good, or bad, and we aren’t label makers.
The number one question I ask in group is who are you? The first answer I get is I am a “alcoholic, drug addict, bipolar, schizophrenia, failure, BPD.” Funny how I rarely hear “Father, mother, son, loving, caring, funny, driven, hard worker.” I ask
what would you think if someone said hi I am “diabetes, cancer, high blood pressure.” Usually I get a weird look. Then a follow question on “why are some diagnoses/labels irrelevant when clearly they are just as detrimental to our health and wellbeing?” Again, a lot of silence.
When retaining our ANT=Automatic Negative Thoughts, we have to start with the ones about ourselves first. If we instill in ourselves as this is our truth how do we move past that?
My only job is to help retrain our views of self, and how we start to plant a seed of hope, replacing negative self identifications, replacing them with words of hope, purpose, healing. How we view and introduce ourself matters, negative thoughts equals 🟰 negative self reflection = hopelessness & self sabotage.
Mental Health Therapist have their purpose to help identify the why process the pain. Mine is to move you past the label in finding purpose. This is the goal 👇 I can’t force you or even make you, but I can stand with you while you find the strength and self worth to motivate yourself in making a positive change. 🩷
Maybe you’re “not ready yet, or waiting for a sign that now is a good time, maybe I don’t want to stop using all substances.” That is all ok, let’s just start out with a simple chat. This journey is yours and we aren’t here to tell you how to take it. We are just here to support change no matter what that looks like for you. You are in control of the direction.