12/20/2025
Posting in solidarity with two therapists that were drug for their choice to participate in this trend. You know what I’m going to normaize right now? Therapists being human. I saw that two bomb, passionate therapists posted an AI generated image to have fun for the holidays, and they were TORN apart. Why? Because people felt as therapists they should “know better”. Why? Because of our job titles? These ladies put it was an AI generated image and that they were having fun with this trend. We need to STOP doing this to our profession! We are already held to almost impossible social standards (no I’m not talking ethics-that should ALWAYS be at the core) of behavior and how we should “be better”. Better than what?
Better than being human? Better than having fun? Better than participating in the same cultural moments literally everyone else is allowed to enjoy?
Somehow, the second you put “therapist” in your bio, you’re expected to become a perfectly regulated, always-on, never-playful, morally superior being who exists only to model enlightenment. No joy that could be misinterpreted. No humor that could be critiqued. No room to be messy, creative, or lighthearted.
And honestly? That expectation is exhausting and unfair.
Yes, ethics matter. Yes, boundaries matter. Yes, competence matters. Those things are non-negotiable. But being ethical does not mean being sterile. Being competent does not mean being boring. Being a therapist does not mean forfeiting your humanity at the door.
We are allowed to laugh. We are allowed to follow trends. We are allowed to be curious, playful, creative, and yes, even a little cringe sometimes. None of that takes away from the depth, skill, or integrity we bring into the therapy room.
If anything, this constant policing of therapists by other therapists and by the public is part of why burnout is rampant. We are professionals, not pedestals. We are clinicians, not concepts.
So let therapists be human. Let them have fun. Let them exist outside of their job title.
Because last I checked, being human is kind of the whole point.