01/23/2026
💙 Diamond Willow Presents:
52 Tips for Transitioning a Loved One to Memory Care
Week Three: Expect a Transition Period
“It is extremely important to recognize the transition from home to residential care can be a very challenging one.”
— Collin Tierney
If you are making the decision to transition your loved one into memory care, please hear this:
You may be feeling so many emotions at once — and all of them are valid.
If you’ve been providing near 24/7 support, you might feel:
✨ relief
✨ hope
…and also
💔 guilt
💔 sadness
💔 fear
That emotional mix doesn’t mean you’re doing the wrong thing.
It means you love them.
And your loved one; even if they don’t fully understand what’s happening cognitively; may also experience intense feelings about the change. Memory care is a new environment with:
• new people
• new routines
• new sounds and expectations
Because of this, it’s important to know that major transitions can sometimes contribute to an initial decline, even when the move is absolutely the right choice.
Some families notice:
• a temporary decrease in functioning
• changes in mood or behaviors
• “new” personality traits they’ve never seen before
• increased confusion, anxiety, or restlessness
And sometimes the care team will call to report behaviors that feel shocking or unfamiliar. Please know: these variations can be normal during transition. Many residents settle into a new baseline — and many bounce back to where they were.
This is why preparation matters. The transition period is real — but it isn’t forever.
And because we know how hard a move can be for individuals living with dementia, it’s also important to understand the long-term capabilities of the community you choose.
Ask the question families don’t always think to ask:
👉 If my loved one’s physical needs increase, will they have to move again?
Will the community be able to support:
• mechanical lifts
• altered texture diets
• feeding assistance
• turning/repositioning in bed
• advanced stages of dementia care
At Diamond Willow, we are proud to support true aging in place, so families who choose our community can feel confident that this major transition only has to happen once.
✨ Follow along each week as we share practical tips, encouragement, and guidance for families navigating the memory care journey.