The Finding Place Counseling

11/01/2025

You have a problem. You want to fix it. “Go to therapy,” they say. But what if those struggles, worries, and stress that weigh heaviest on your heart—aren’t flaws to fight against, but parts of you trying to protect and guide you in the only way they know how?

This is the backbone of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, or “parts work.” By gently attuning to and caring for the "parts of yourself", you can bring peace to your mind and soul while flourishing in your relationships. With IFS therapy, true change isn’t about “fixing”; it’s about walking towards understanding, grace, and hope.

And we are happy to announce that our team of therapists are now trained to use IFS therapy. Please reach out if this may be helpful to you and your family.

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10/28/2025

“The best investment of time I have made in my adult life.”

One client shared how traveling to Little Rock for an intensive gave them life-changing insight and clarity around years of pain. Concentrated, one-on-one time can create space for breakthroughs that weekly sessions sometimes can’t reach.

Healing is possible—and every step forward matters.
Book your intensive today: www.thefindingplacecounseling.com

10/25/2025

Finding out your partner has cheated is devastating—and in the shock, it’s hard to know what to do next. Some common instincts, like playing detective, oversharing details with friends and family, or involving children too early, can make healing harder.

The healthiest first step? Seek professional support. A couples therapist can help guide the process, while a partner trauma therapist (CPTT) can support the betrayed spouse, and a certified s*xual addiction therapist (CSAT) can help if addiction is involved.

It’s not about pretending everything will be “fine again.” True healing takes honesty, boundaries, and professional guidance. With the right support, many couples find recovery is possible—even after deep betrayal.

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10/21/2025

Did you know we send out a quarterly newsletter with updates on life at The Finding Place, new offerings, and encouragement?

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10/18/2025

In today’s digital age, po*******hy is more accessible than ever before. While many people view it casually, for some, it can become a habit that feels hard to break.

If you’re wondering whether your consumption of p**n has crossed a line from occasional use to something more compulsive, you’re not alone. It can be challenging to determine when something has become an addiction, especially when it feels normal or even harmless.

Click the link below to read our article where we explore some key signs of p**n addiction and offer a self-assessment test to help you better understand your relationship with p**n.

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10/14/2025

“There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.”

Not all pain is visible. Trauma, betrayal, PTSD, and even the struggles tied to s*x addiction often leave wounds that can’t be seen but are felt every day—in relationships, in trust, and in the way we see ourselves.

At The Finding Place Counseling, we believe those hidden wounds deserve the same care and attention as any physical injury. Healing takes time, support, and the right tools—but recovery is possible. You don’t have to carry invisible pain alone.

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10/11/2025

Affairs don’t occur in healthy marriages—they’re usually the result of deeper, unaddressed issues in a relationship. Unresolved childhood trauma, family of origin wounds, s*xual addiction, or communication struggles can all create cracks where betrayal takes root.

When these struggles go unspoken, one partner may seek connection, validation, or comfort outside the marriage. While the affair itself is deeply painful, it’s rarely the root problem—it’s a symptom of something larger.

Healing begins when both partners, guided by a qualified therapist, are willing to address those underlying wounds with honesty and compassion.

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10/07/2025

At The Finding Place, we believe that clients benefit from robust therapy. That's why we focus on creating custom treatment plans that help you make real progress and cutting edging training for our therapists so they have the tools they need to help you heal.

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10/04/2025

Let’s Talk About P**n Addiction

P**n addiction isn’t just about watching adult content—it’s about losing control and interfering with your relationships. For some, it becomes a compulsive pattern where the urge to consume p**n outweighs healthy relationships, work, and personal well-being. Over time, it may take more frequent or extreme material to feel the same level of satisfaction, creating a cycle that feels impossible to break.

This cycle can lead to feelings of shame, guilt, and isolation. It can also impact intimacy, fuel unrealistic expectations about s*x, and create emotional distress. While not always recognized as a formal clinical disorder, many mental health professionals acknowledge the serious toll p**n addiction can take and encourage seeking support.

When you notice p**n is interfering with your daily life or your relationships, know that you’re not alone—and help is available. Healing starts with understanding the issue and taking the first steps toward change.

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10/02/2025

Our clinic had a busy summer with trainings and fun. Read about it all in our recent newsletter 👇

In May, all of our s*xual addiction (CSAT) and betrayal trauma therapists (CPTT) flew to Arizona for the bi-annual in-person Iitap Symposium. While most of the 3 days were spent in workshops and learning, we did get to have fun, too!

09/30/2025

Now is a great time to set your child up for success. Our therapists can see your child after school from 3-8pm.

Call our office today to lock in their recurring appointment!

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09/27/2025

Do you have a lot to unpack? Are you a busy person? Does just 1 hour a week in counseling not feel like enough to get the freedom you need?

We offer 1, 2, or 3-day custom therapy intensives for individuals, families, and couples.

Learn more or schedule yours at https://thefindingplacecounseling.com/custom-intensives/