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The SOLE PURPOSE of this page is to inspire men (and their partners) to take charge of themselves, their relationships, and their purpose in life.

We help men who want MORE from their life and relationships to be confident, considerate AND MASCULINE so that they can have PASSION, AFFECTION and INTIMATE CONNECTION whenever they want. That’s a BIG claim I know. We don’t just claim that we can deliver this though, we promise to. We love coaching men to understand what it means to take the lead in their relationships and create more fulfilling lives for themselves.

02/17/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐃𝐨 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐒𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐒𝐡𝐞’𝐬 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐀𝐧𝐲𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞

When she says she’s not in love with you anymore it’s a clear sign that something needs to change in your relationship for it to survive but what? And how?

What should you think when your wife pops an unexpected surprise like this?
Speaking of unexpected surprises, here are a few more I’ve cataloged along my way working with unsuspecting husbands.

I just don’t feel that way about you anymore.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-when-your-wife-says-shes-not-in-love-with-you-anymore/

02/16/2026

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐔𝐧𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐁𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮

If you’re in a cold, disconnected or s*xless marriage, you may be wondering “is it possible to attract your unhappy wife back into love with you?” The short answer is YES! But it’s not a quick fix and it’s certainly not simple.

“Her wedding ring stares at me each morning from its new place on the bathroom counter.

She’s a ghost of her former self and glides through the house still taking care of business

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-attract-your-unhappy-wife-back-into-love-with-you/

02/15/2026

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐓𝐨 𝐓𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐃𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐲 𝐓𝐨 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞

Talk dirty to your wife to open up a whole new range of s*xual exploration and intimate connection between you. Say the right thing at the right time…

Is your discomfort with “dirty talk” affecting the depth of intimacy you have with your wife?
In a coaching session the other day with a long time married guy, the uncomfortable topic of “dirty talk” came up.

This is part of that conversation.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/save-your-marriage-learn-to-talk-dirty-to-your-wife/

02/14/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞

Chasing your wife is a problem because the act of chasing is needy. Needy is creepy & creepy gets you nowhere. So what do you do when your wife is pulling away?

The same perils of chasing apply to anything…chasing a raise, chasing a promotion, chasing a customer, chasing a client or chasing a woman.

So when you want something what’s a better option?

INVITING.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-you-need-to-stop-chasing-your-wife/

02/13/2026

𝐌𝐲 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐒𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐈𝐬 𝐒𝐞𝐱

Has your wife said all you want is s*x, and then you’ve felt that rush of shame and start defending yourself or arguing with her as to why she “should” want s*x? Then this article is for you…

Are you a man who has been diagnosed by women as having “Sex Brain?” What the hell does that even mean anyway?

What the hell is “Sex Brain”?

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/a-womans-answer-to-having-more-s*x-s*x-brain-surgery/

02/12/2026

𝐌𝐲 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐒𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐈’𝐦 𝐃𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞

Your wife said I’m done with you and this marriage and suddenly your gut opened up and a gaping hole of anxiety and fear took hold of you. I know, I’ve been through exactly this experience too.

After years of coaching men through this situation, I want to show you a different perspective of WHY women say “I’m done” as well as some steps to calm your emotions and get back to feeling confident again.

Here are the biggest, ugliest emotional daggers a wife can throw at you

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/my-wife-said-im-done-with-you-and-this-marriage/

02/10/2026

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐓𝐨 𝐌𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐱𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐅𝐮𝐧 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐅𝐥𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐲 𝐀𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧

Are you stuck in a s*xless marriage and wishing you knew how to reignite the fun, passion and s*xual tension that you had together at the beginning?

I need to make this quick – for personal reasons.

You see, I’ve had my face in this computer for days now.

I’ve been on the phone, I’ve been traveling, I’ve been making videos…and I’m working on a new group coaching program to help you with your confidence in your relationships (find out more about that here)

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-make-your-s*xless-marriage-fun-and-flirty-again/

02/09/2026

𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐅𝐢𝐱 𝐀 𝐁𝐫𝐨𝐤𝐞𝐧 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐞𝐱 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞?

Many men come to us to learn how to fix a broken marriage. They imagine their marriage is a V-8 engine. Maybe it has a bad spark plug..? Would you get a new engine or replace the spark plug?

If you’re anything like me, the answer is “Hell yes”! If changing a spark plug would fix a broken marriage I’d do it! (And I’d change the oil and air cleaner while I’m at it)

And therein lies the problem…I’m a “fixer”! How about you?

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/can-you-fix-a-broken-marriage/

02/08/2026

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐑𝐞𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐈𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞

If you want to rebuild trust in your marriage, it starts with a cold, hard look at your own behavior. Women feel unsafe around a man with no consistent opinion, they hate us being wishy-washy and indecisive.

5 Traits Of A Wishy-Washy Man
Has your woman ever complained about you being undependable or wishy-washy?

Do you ever feel like you’re stuck and just can’t follow through on things?

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-rebuild-trust-in-your-marriage/

02/07/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐓𝐨 𝐃𝐨 𝐈𝐟 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞

It hurts when your wife wants to leave your marriage, we will do almost anything to fix it, but what’s the most effective solution?

In this article I explain why “trying to fix your marriage” is the wrong approach and a sure-fire way to screw it up. So what should you do instead?

Facing Your Fear And Pain
When men first reach out for help they are almost always feeling immense fear and pain…and they want to FIX that fear and pain right now!

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-to-do-if-your-wife-wants-to-leave-your-marriage/

02/06/2026

𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐈’𝐦 𝐚𝐧 𝐀𝐦𝐚𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐃𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐌𝐲 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭?

It’s a common story…wife becomes unhappy, wife pulls away, husband learns from the pain and becomes a better…no, an amazing man, but it’s too late to save the marriage. Why can’t we achieve that beforehand?

“I’ll probably never be able love anyone like I loved, Jessica.” Paul told me a few weeks after his divorce from his wife of 18 years.”

The last year of his marriage was an exhausting struggle as he watched Jessica pull farther and farther away until she finally moved out. “We can still be friends, can’t we?” she would say.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/she-said-im-an-amazing-man-why-didnt-my-wife-see-that/

02/04/2026

𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐎𝐫 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐌𝐞 𝐀𝐧𝐲𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞

Have you heard that your wife doesn’t trust or respect you anymore? Have you been trying to jump through the various hoops she sets up for you saying things like, “if you loved me you would…”

Here is the best (and free) advice to men who are tired of jumping through hoops. Just stop.

Dammit Steve, she is always complaining about something I haven’t done right. She says the work I’ve been doing on myself isn’t working for her. She isn’t happy with how I reacted to her being upset last night. There is always a new “hoop” to jump through to satisfy her and I can never see it coming. It’s like she’s testing me over and over again and it’s pi***ng me off. I’m tired of hearing about the things she doesn’t like. How hard would it be for her to say something she DOES like?

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/my-wife-sets-up-hoops-i-jump-i-miss-what-now/

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