DSR Counseling

DSR Counseling I love working with couples and individual adults. Sessions are always interactive and engaging. I look forward to getting to know you.

I know how hard it can be to ask for help, and I applaud how brave people are to reach out. I have three degrees in counseling psychology, and almost two decades of experience. I also know that while it's important that you know I am qualified and experienced, what you care about most is that you feel heard, and find hope, help, and support to work through your struggles. The rapport we build in therapy is so important to me, and I want you to leave each session feeling stronger and valued. Please reach out to me through my website to get started with a complimentary consultation call so that I can answer any questions you have and you can make sure you feel like we are a good fit. You can message me through this page, but please don't leave anything too personal. My website, emailing, calling, or texting me is much more secure.

If you’ve ever scrolled social media and thought “Wait… what’s the difference between grounding and mindfulness? Is my n...
09/30/2025

If you’ve ever scrolled social media and thought “Wait… what’s the difference between grounding and mindfulness? Is my nervous system properly regulated? And am I doing somatic work wrong? Do I even know what somatic work is?” — you’re not alone.

The self-help corner of social media is full of buzzwords, and it can be a lot to digest. Mindfulness, grounding, nervous system regulation and somatic practices can be super helpful. But if we treat them like magic spells, we risk ending up frustrated, blaming ourselves when they don’t “work.”

The truth is, these tools aren’t one-size-fits-all. They land differently depending on why you’re using them, what you’re hoping for, and how they’re woven into the bigger picture of your life.

So instead of trying to master every trendy tool you see online, try asking: What do I actually want to get out of this?

That’s where therapy comes in—it’s the place to sort through what’s helpful, what’s hype, and how to make these practices meaningful for you.

Next time you’re with your therapist (or if you’re thinking of starting therapy), bring it up! Saying “I keep seeing all these terms online, and I’d like to figure out what they really mean for me” is a great way to advocate for yourself and explore ways to clarify the sometimes confusing world of these tools.

Which tool confuses you the most?

Which one are you most interested in?

Happy National Teddy Bear Day! Teddy bears remind us of comfort, and while a soft bear (or your favorite blanket) won’t ...
09/09/2025

Happy National Teddy Bear Day! Teddy bears remind us of comfort, and while a soft bear (or your favorite blanket) won’t solve life‘s heavy issues, the truth is – little comforts do matter.

I always smile when my favorite mug is clean and ready for that first cup of tea, when I get to sink into my best sweatpants at the end of the day, or get an unexpected text or call from the special people in my life.

For you, it might be slipping into fresh sheets, the smell of coffee brewing, seeing a funny meme that makes you laugh, or your dog‘s tail-wagging greeting.

These things don’t replace asking for help when you need it, or taking steps to address difficult seasons, but they can offer small sparks of joy that remind us life isn’t all heavy.

I once suggested to a client who loves hiking but doesn’t have much time for it that he collect a few stones and keep them in a jar on his desk. After a dramatic eye roll, he tried it – and later admitted it gave him a surprising little boost. He even named it his office glimmer.

Sometimes it’s not about fixing everything at once – it’s remembering to notice the glimmer along the way.

As summer winds down and fall begins, many people notice the shift isn’t always as cozy as pumpkin spice ads make it see...
08/18/2025

As summer winds down and fall begins, many people notice the shift isn’t always as cozy as pumpkin spice ads make it seem. Maybe you didn’t accomplish as much as you hoped this summer, or maybe the return to school has your household feeling like it’s running on fast-forward. Add in fewer hours of sunlight, unpredictable weather, and the looming pressure of the holiday season creeping closer—and it makes sense if you’re feeling off balance. Even adults without school-age kids can feel the effects of this seasonal change: busier traffic, shifting work routines, and the subtle reminder that another year is flying by.

If you’re noticing yourself feeling irritable, tired, or even a little sad as the seasons change, you’re not alone. Transitions are hard, even positive ones. It’s important to give yourself permission to feel what you feel instead of brushing it off with “I should be fine.” Validate your own experience—yes, the season is beautiful, but it can also be demanding. Some people also find that the change in daylight affects their energy and mood (hello, earlier sunsets), which is a very real adjustment for our minds and bodies.

A few gentle tips: keep a flexible routine that balances productivity with rest, spend time outside to soak up natural light while you can, and plan a few simple things you can look forward to this fall that are just for you (cozy movie nights, a new recipe, or a short weekend trip). And remember—your worth isn’t measured by how much you did or didn’t squeeze into summer. Transitions take time, and giving yourself grace can make this season feel less like a race and more like an opportunity to reset.

💡Why Some Clients Choose to Pay Out of Pocket for TherapyI often get asked why some clients opt not to use insurance whe...
07/22/2025

💡Why Some Clients Choose to Pay Out of Pocket for Therapy

I often get asked why some clients opt not to use insurance when coming to therapy. This post, written by my colleague, Alicia Rippy at Wild Strength Therapy, does a fantastic job breaking down the reasons in a clear and compassionate way.

With her permission, I'm sharing my shortened version of it here because it might answer questions you've had about how therapy works—and help you decide what’s best for you. If this resonates and you're thinking about starting or returning to therapy, I’d love to connect.

Message me or go to my website www.dsrcounseling.com to schedule a session or learn more about what working together could look like. Here's the post:

A Guide for Therapy Clients Navigating Insurance

Did you know that in order to use insurance for mental health services, you must receive a formal diagnosis from a licensed provider such as a therapist, counselor, psychologist, psychiatrist, or physician? This requirement exists because insurance companies need to establish that treatment is medically necessary in order to approve and reimburse claims.

However, it’s important to recognize that not everyone who seeks therapy meets the criteria for a clinical diagnosis. Many individuals benefit from therapy simply by having a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore their thoughts, process experiences, and co-regulate emotionally—regardless of whether their situation constitutes a mental health disorder under diagnostic guidelines.

The Complexities of Insurance

Mental health diagnosis can be nuanced and complex. I often use the CPT (Current Procedural Terminology) code for “Adjustment Disorder” when working with clients navigating life transitions or stressors that don’t meet the threshold for a more severe diagnosis. This code allows us to meet insurance criteria while still honoring the client's lived experience.

That said, an Adjustment Disorder diagnosis is only valid for up to six months. After that, insurance companies typically require a reassessment and, in many cases, a more "serious" diagnosis to continue coverage. This puts clinicians in a difficult position—balancing ethical care and confidentiality with the rigid standards of insurance providers.

I made the decision to step away from direct insurance billing and adopt a private-pay model. This allows me to center my time, energy, and attention on providing high-quality, personalized care. For clients who still want to use their insurance, I now offer superbills.

What Is a Superbill?

A superbill is a detailed invoice that includes all the necessary information for a client to submit an out-of-network reimbursement claim to their insurance company. It typically includes:

Provider name and credentials

Client’s name and date of birth

Date and duration of sessions

Diagnosis code (ICD-10)

Procedure code (CPT)

Total session fee paid

Provider's NPI (National Provider Identifier) and tax ID

While submitting a superbill doesn't guarantee reimbursement, many clients receive partial refunds—especially if they have a PPO plan with out-of-network benefits.

Thanks to Alicia for the clear and empowering explanation. Regardless of how you ultimately pay for therapy, it's helpful to know what the options are so that you can step confidently into receiving the support you deserve, whether you pay fully out of pocket or are able to be partially reimbursed. And while I'm giving credit to those who support efforts to provide resources, credit for the cute graphic goes to Jen Stocksmith, whose talent I borrow on a frequent basis!

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