04/01/2026
To the mom watching her adult child struggle: I see you.
There is a part of motherhood no one really prepares you for: the part where your heart still lives outside your body, even after they are adults.
When our kids hit turbulence as adults, we feel it in our bones. Our first instinct is still to shield them, even when we know we have to let them navigate their own path. It is a profound labor to hold your own heart steady while they find their way.
In this season of life, our roles shift from fixer to sacred witness. It doesn't make the hurting any less real, but it does allow us to empower them while protecting our own peace.
You are their mom forever. And your heart matters just as much as theirs.