11/15/2025
There’s a strange pressure this time of year—
as if the calendar whispers, “Perform. Perfect. Provide.”
But the truth is softer, wiser: no one has it all.
What we can have is what matters most… and that is plenty.
As the holidays gather their glitter and chaos, remember this:
your peace isn’t optional décor. It’s the foundation.
A steady heartbeat beneath the wrapping paper,
a quiet room inside you that no event, expectation, or relative’s commentary gets to redecorate.
If you need a couple grounding anchors, try these:
• Name your non-negotiables.
Maybe it’s a slow morning. Maybe it’s leaving the party before your joy does. Draw the line with love—and hold it with grace.
• Build tiny rituals of recovery.
A cup of tea you don’t gulp. Three deep breaths before you open a door. Ten minutes where you put your phone down and your shoulders down too. Small things stitch you back together.
Let yourself be human this season—messy, radiant, imperfect, enough.
Gather what truly nourishes you and let the rest fall like pine needles on the carpet: harmless, inevitable, and destined to be swept away.