Heart Mind Tuning

Heart Mind Tuning LA based consulting agency that offers the following services:
- Life, leadership and executive coac

Kathy Hadizadeh, MSc Eng, CPCC, EQAC, ICF PCC, UCLA TMF is your ๐๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ง๐ž๐ซ. She is an ๐ˆ๐‚๐… ๐œ๐ž๐ซ๐ญ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ข๐ž๐ ๐ˆ๐๐“๐„๐†๐‘๐€๐‹ life, leadership and executive coach, ๐”๐‚๐‹๐€ trained Mindfulness Educator, and a ๐’๐ˆ๐˜๐‹๐ˆ alumni of ENGAGE program to bring neuroscience based emotional intelligence and mindful leadership to workplaces. As a former tech executive and a trained system engineer, Kathy combines the power of coaching and systematic thinking about human transformation and behavior change as she partners with her clients in individual or group coaching. With a tenure of two decades in meditation and reflective practices, she is well equipped to partner with her clients especially from the fast based world of tech to build the capacity for slowing down. Using her ๐๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐‘๐ข๐ฌ๐žยฎ series, clients and her workshop attendees experience what it means to build executive presence, sharpen emotional intelligence and develop active resilience.

02/25/2026

Last night at Spark Salon by Unlikely Collaborators, I heard something that quietly challenged the way high performers think about ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ.(Yes, I traded watching state of the union with book signing!)

โœ”๏ธNot optimize it.
โœ”๏ธNot hack it.
โœ”๏ธNot perfect it.

๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž to it.

One slide crossed out the phrase โ€œoptimize your sleep hygieneโ€ and replaced it with:

๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž ๐š ๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ.

That hit me.

Because most leaders I work with donโ€™t struggle with discipline.
๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ.

We treat sleep like a KPI.
If we just track it harder, regulate it better, perfect the temperature, eliminate every variableโ€ฆ weโ€™ll โ€œwinโ€ at it.

But sleep doesnโ€™t respond to pressure.
It responds to safety.

One of the most powerful distinctions shared was this:

๐“๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ โ‰  ๐’๐ฅ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ๐ฒ.

Exhaustion is depletion.
Sleepiness is biology.

And when we override sleepiness with stimulation, screens, and one-more-email energy, we arenโ€™t just delaying bedtime.

๐–๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ข๐ง ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.

Thatโ€™s where this connects deeply to Pause to Rise.

Same as sleep, you need to build a relationship with the Pause.

High-achieving leaders often seek how to sustain performance under pressure without burning out. They seek it in their heart and mind without asking it in words.

Hereโ€™s the paradox:

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.
๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ข๐ญ.

โœ”๏ธConsistent wake time.
โœ”๏ธStrategic light exposure.
โœ”๏ธReducing stimulation at night.
โœ”๏ธAnd perhaps most importantly โ€” shifting your mindset.

๐‘ฐ๐’‡ ๐’”๐’๐’†๐’†๐’‘ ๐’˜๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’‚ ๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’•๐’๐’†๐’“, ๐’‰๐’๐’˜ ๐’˜๐’๐’–๐’๐’… ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’•๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’• ๐’Š๐’•?

โ“๏ธIgnore it until it breaks?
โ“๏ธOptimize it for output?
โ“๏ธOr communicate with it and adapt?

Attention agency begins at night.

Where you place light.
Where you place stimulation.
Where you place your mind at 10:30 p.m.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐ก๐ฒ๐ ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐ž.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐ ๐š ๐›๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ž๐ž๐ฉ.

02/06/2026

Gratitude, as Alan Watts might whisper it, is not a thank-you note to life.
Itโ€™s a way of seeing.

Not โ€œI am grateful for this,โ€
but โ€œI am grateful as this.โ€

This AS makes all the difference!!!

For Watts, gratitude wasnโ€™t a checklist of blessings.
It was the realization that you are not separate from the moment youโ€™re living.
You are it
the breath breathing,
the sound hearing,
the universe experiencing itself as you.

You are the moment!

When you truly see that, gratitude stops being effortful.
It becomes inevitable.

You donโ€™t thank the wave for rising.
You donโ€™t applaud the sun for shining.
You simply marvel at the fact that itโ€™s happening at all.

Gratitude, then, is the end of resistance.
The soft laugh that says,
โ€œOhโ€ฆ this too belongs.โ€

โœจ And in that knowing,
nothing needs to be different
for everything to be enough.

PauseToRise

02/06/2026

Thereโ€™s a quiet question Alan Watts would gently slip into the roomโ€”
one that rearranges the furniture of your mind:

Who are you really trying to make proud?

Not your parentsโ€™ expectations.
Not societyโ€™s applause.
Not the imaginary audience in your head keeping score.

Because the moment you live for approval,
you fracture yourself into performances.

Alan Watts reminded us that life is not a rehearsal,
and you are not here to earn worth through compliance.
You are here to express what you already are.

The deeper truth?
There is only one being who needs to nod in quiet recognition at the end of the day.

You.

The you who knows when you compromised your values.
The you who feels when you followed your own rhythm.
The you who senses alignment long before success shows up.

Pride, in its truest form, isnโ€™t loud.
Itโ€™s calm.
Itโ€™s the relief of not pretending.
Itโ€™s the peace of no longer chasing permission.

โœจ When you stop trying to impress the world,
you finally make space to honor yourself.

And thatโ€”
according to Wattsโ€”
is the beginning of real freedom.

PauseToRise

02/06/2026

When you become fully present, something extraordinary happens inside the brain.

As Joe Dispenza teaches, presence is not just a state of mindโ€”itโ€™s a biological event.

The moment you stop replaying the pastโ€ฆ
The moment you release the urge to predict the futureโ€ฆ
The brain quiets its survival circuits.

Stress hormones soften.
The analytical noise fades.
And the nervous system receives a powerful signal: you are safe, right now.

In presence, the brain shifts from fragmentation to coherence.
Neural circuits begin to synchronize.
The body follows the mind into balance.

This is where creativity awakens.
Where intuition gets louder than fear.
Where clarity replaces compulsive doing.

Presence is the gateway to change because the brain canโ€™t rewire itself while itโ€™s trapped in yesterdayโ€™s emotions or tomorrowโ€™s anxieties.
It rewires in the now.

And hereโ€™s the paradox:
The more present you become,
the less you chase outcomesโ€”
and the more aligned outcomes begin to find you.

Presence isnโ€™t passive.
Itโ€™s powerful.
Itโ€™s the moment you step out of habit and into possibility.

โœจ When you are truly here,
your brain stops rehearsing who you wereโ€ฆ
and starts preparing you for who youโ€™re becoming.

PauseToRise

02/06/2026

Hereโ€™s a polished, heart-forward post you can drop straight into LinkedIn or adapt for your voice โœจ

A servant leader doesnโ€™t climb the mountain alone.
They turn around, extend a hand, and say: โ€œCome with me.โ€

As Simon Sinek reminds us, leadership is not about being in chargeโ€”itโ€™s about taking care of those in your charge.

A servant leader doesnโ€™t ask,
โ€œHow do I rise faster?โ€
They ask,
โ€œHow do I help others rise higher?โ€

They create safety before strategy.
Trust before targets.
Belonging before brilliance.

In their presence, people feel seenโ€”not used.
Heardโ€”not managed.
Stretchedโ€”not sacrificed.

And hereโ€™s the quiet magic:
When people feel protected, they take braver risks.
When they feel valued, they give their best.
When they feel supported, they riseโ€”and they bring others with them.

Servant leadership isnโ€™t soft.
Itโ€™s courageous.
It requires ego to step aside so purpose can step forward.

Because the strongest leaders donโ€™t shine alone.
They build light in othersโ€”and suddenly, the whole room rises.

โœจ The true measure of leadership?
Not how high you climbโ€ฆ
โ€ฆbut how many rise because you were there.

02/06/2026

.kabat.zinn on what is happening in . The suffering is unbeleivable. Are humans even equipped to suffer through this amount of brutality?

02/01/2026

Hereโ€™s something I often share with leaders who tell me:

โ€œMy mind just wonโ€™t stop. The negative thoughts run the show.โ€

I gently smile and say:

Your brain isnโ€™t broken.
Itโ€™s justโ€ฆ trained.

And like any training, it can be retrained.

Not through force.
Not through โ€œpositive thinking.โ€
But through practice.

Because hereโ€™s the truth:

The brain has a negativity bias.

Itโ€™s ancient wiring. Survival code.

Your mind is constantly scanning for: Whatโ€™s wrong
What might fail
What could go sideways

Helpful for escaping tigers.
Exhausting in boardrooms.

So if you donโ€™t train it intentionally,
it defaults to threat mode.

Which means:

One tough email โ†’ โ€œIโ€™m failing.โ€
One missed goal โ†’ โ€œThis will collapse.โ€
One piece of feedback โ†’ โ€œIโ€™m not enough.โ€

Sound familiar?

But hereโ€™s the hopeful part:

Neuroplasticity means the brain rewires based on repetition.

Not intensity.
Repetition.

Tiny reps. Daily.

Like going to the gym for your mind.

Hereโ€™s a simple practice I use myself โ€” and teach executives.

I call it:

Pause โ†’ Name โ†’ Reframe โ†’ Choose

โœจ A real-life example:

You send a proposal.
No reply for 24 hours.

Your brain says: โ€œThey hate it. I messed this up. I shouldโ€™ve done better.โ€

Instead of believing it automaticallyโ€ฆ

Step 1 โ€” Pause
Take one slow breath. Literally interrupt the spiral.

Step 2 โ€” Name
โ€œIโ€™m noticing a fear story.โ€
(Not โ€œItโ€™s true.โ€ Just โ€œa story.โ€)

This creates distance.

You are not the thought.
You are the observer of the thought.

That separation is power.

Step 3 โ€” Reframe
Ask:
โ€œWhat else could be true?โ€

Maybe: โ€ข Theyโ€™re busy
โ€ข Itโ€™s stuck in procurement
โ€ข Timing, not quality

Youโ€™re not forcing positivity.
Youโ€™re widening perspective.

Step 4 โ€” Choose
โ€œWhat action serves me best right now?โ€

Follow up calmly.
Move to the next task.
Stay grounded.

No drama. No self-attack.

Just agency.

Thatโ€™s training.

And hereโ€™s the magic:

Do this 10 times a dayโ€ฆ
for a few weeksโ€ฆ

And something shifts.

The thoughts still appear.

But they donโ€™t own you.

Itโ€™s like watching clouds instead of being the storm.

This is mental fitness.

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It is ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ” โœจThe first thought that found me this morning was ๐›๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ .A new year feels like a quiet doorway of hopeโ€”inv...
01/01/2026

It is ๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ” โœจ
The first thought that found me this morning was ๐›๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ .

A new year feels like a quiet doorway of hopeโ€”
inviting us to step through with courage we forgot we still had.

2025 carried fragile, unfinished beginningsโ€ฆ
and one of them became real:
๐Ÿ“˜ ๐๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐‘๐ข๐ฌ๐ž (publishing Q1 2026)

A reminder that ๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐ฏ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง doesnโ€™t come from rushing,
but from slowing down long enough
to remember where youโ€™re meant to go.

Yes, life still brings headless-chicken ๐Ÿ” momentsโ€”
and yes, that includes me.

The holidays gave me a gift: ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐š๐œ๐ž.
A pause. A breath. A reset.

This new ๐›๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  means choosing one direction
and closing my eyes to the shiny distractions.

Looking ahead to 2026:
๐Ÿ RiseHub
๐Ÿ More space for leaders to slow down & elevate
๐Ÿ A deeper, quieter kind of growth

May we each find the ONE THING
that makes our eyes light up again โœจ

Not just a new yearโ€”
but a truer beginning.

What is your ONE THING?


# humancenteredleadership

12/31/2025

When success stops feeling successful

I chose this topic on purpose as 2025 draws to an end and many look into 2026 as a clean slate.

Thereโ€™s a moment many high achievers donโ€™t talk about.
It doesnโ€™t show up on rรฉsumรฉs or LinkedIn headlines.
It shows up at 2:17 a.m.

Youโ€™ve done everything right:
โœ”๏ธ The titles
โœ”๏ธ The compensation
โœ”๏ธ The reputation

And yetโ€ฆ something feels hollow.

This isnโ€™t burnout.
This isnโ€™t a lack of ambition.
This is an existential pause.

Itโ€™s the quiet question whispering beneath performance: โ€œIs this it?โ€
โ€œWhy does winning feel so empty?โ€
โ€œWho am I without the grind?โ€

High achievers are especially vulnerable here.
When your identity has been built on impact, output, and excellence,
the moment meaning goes offline can feel destabilizing.

Most try to outrun it.
More goals. More pressure. Another promotion.
(Plot twist: the question keeps up.)

Hereโ€™s the reframe I offer my clients:

An existential crisis isnโ€™t a breakdown.
Itโ€™s an upgrade request from your nervous system and your values.

This is where my work begins.

I help senior leaders and high performers:
โ€ข slow the internal noise without losing their edge
โ€ข separate identity from achievement
โ€ข reconnect to what actually matters now (not ten years ago)
โ€ข build a version of success that feels aligned, sustainable, and alive

This is Pause to Riseโ„ข.
Not stepping away from ambition โ€”
but learning how to lead from meaning instead of chasing it.

If youโ€™re winning on paper but questioning everything in private,
youโ€™re not broken.

Youโ€™re early in your next evolution.

And that pause youโ€™re resisting?
It might be the most strategic move you make this year.

๐ŸŒฑ

12/16/2025

Hope doesnโ€™t only live in the mind.
Itโ€™s forged in motion. ๐Ÿ’ซ

Research shows that when your muscles contract, they release chemical messengers called myokines.
Tiny signals with outsized impact.

Irisin.
BDNF.
Endorphins.

They travel upwardโ€”
from body to brainโ€”
lifting mood, sharpening clarity, softening despair.

This is why a walk can change your outlook.
Why stretching your arms can stretch your sense of possibility.
Why movement isnโ€™t productivityโ€ฆ itโ€™s medicine.

Hope, it turns out, is not passive.
Itโ€™s secreted when you choose to moveโ€”
even gently, even imperfectly.

So if today feels heavy:
donโ€™t think your way out of it.
Contract a muscle.
Stand up.
Breathe.
Take one step.

Your body knows how to make hope. ๐ŸŒฑ

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Kathy Hadizadeh is the founder of Heart Mind Tuning. A former technology executive, she helps her coaching clients make a transformational shift in their beliefs, emotions, and somatic experiences. Some of her focus areas are: stress management, anxiety reduction, nurturing wellness, fostering innovation and creativity, and improving communications through building self awareness and attention training.

Heart Mind Tuning also offers workshops and coaching to corporations on neuroscience based Mindfulness and Emotional Intelligence techniques and assessments.

She is a survivor of a traumatic brain injury. Her passion is building awareness of brain health and fitness. PAUSE to Rise is a movement she is heading which focuses on building awareness of the importance of slowing down and connecting with our true self and emotions to disrupt the life on autopilot and foster well being.