Heart Mind Tuning

Heart Mind Tuning LA based consulting agency that offers the following services:
- Life, leadership and executive coac

Kathy Hadizadeh, MSc Eng, CPCC, EQAC, ICF PCC, UCLA TMF is your ๐๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ง๐ž๐ซ. She is an ๐ˆ๐‚๐… ๐œ๐ž๐ซ๐ญ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ข๐ž๐ ๐ˆ๐๐“๐„๐†๐‘๐€๐‹ life, leadership and executive coach, ๐”๐‚๐‹๐€ trained Mindfulness Educator, and a ๐’๐ˆ๐˜๐‹๐ˆ alumni of ENGAGE program to bring neuroscience based emotional intelligence and mindful leadership to workplaces. As a former tech executive and a trained system engineer, Kathy combines the power of coaching and systematic thinking about human transformation and behavior change as she partners with her clients in individual or group coaching. With a tenure of two decades in meditation and reflective practices, she is well equipped to partner with her clients especially from the fast based world of tech to build the capacity for slowing down. Using her ๐๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐‘๐ข๐ฌ๐žยฎ series, clients and her workshop attendees experience what it means to build executive presence, sharpen emotional intelligence and develop active resilience.

12/31/2025

When success stops feeling successful

I chose this topic on purpose as 2025 draws to an end and many look into 2026 as a clean slate.

Thereโ€™s a moment many high achievers donโ€™t talk about.
It doesnโ€™t show up on rรฉsumรฉs or LinkedIn headlines.
It shows up at 2:17 a.m.

Youโ€™ve done everything right:
โœ”๏ธ The titles
โœ”๏ธ The compensation
โœ”๏ธ The reputation

And yetโ€ฆ something feels hollow.

This isnโ€™t burnout.
This isnโ€™t a lack of ambition.
This is an existential pause.

Itโ€™s the quiet question whispering beneath performance: โ€œIs this it?โ€
โ€œWhy does winning feel so empty?โ€
โ€œWho am I without the grind?โ€

High achievers are especially vulnerable here.
When your identity has been built on impact, output, and excellence,
the moment meaning goes offline can feel destabilizing.

Most try to outrun it.
More goals. More pressure. Another promotion.
(Plot twist: the question keeps up.)

Hereโ€™s the reframe I offer my clients:

An existential crisis isnโ€™t a breakdown.
Itโ€™s an upgrade request from your nervous system and your values.

This is where my work begins.

I help senior leaders and high performers:
โ€ข slow the internal noise without losing their edge
โ€ข separate identity from achievement
โ€ข reconnect to what actually matters now (not ten years ago)
โ€ข build a version of success that feels aligned, sustainable, and alive

This is Pause to Riseโ„ข.
Not stepping away from ambition โ€”
but learning how to lead from meaning instead of chasing it.

If youโ€™re winning on paper but questioning everything in private,
youโ€™re not broken.

Youโ€™re early in your next evolution.

And that pause youโ€™re resisting?
It might be the most strategic move you make this year.

๐ŸŒฑ

12/16/2025

Hope doesnโ€™t only live in the mind.
Itโ€™s forged in motion. ๐Ÿ’ซ

Research shows that when your muscles contract, they release chemical messengers called myokines.
Tiny signals with outsized impact.

Irisin.
BDNF.
Endorphins.

They travel upwardโ€”
from body to brainโ€”
lifting mood, sharpening clarity, softening despair.

This is why a walk can change your outlook.
Why stretching your arms can stretch your sense of possibility.
Why movement isnโ€™t productivityโ€ฆ itโ€™s medicine.

Hope, it turns out, is not passive.
Itโ€™s secreted when you choose to moveโ€”
even gently, even imperfectly.

So if today feels heavy:
donโ€™t think your way out of it.
Contract a muscle.
Stand up.
Breathe.
Take one step.

Your body knows how to make hope. ๐ŸŒฑ

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12/15/2025

This weekend, as many lit candles for the Festival of Lights,
the world flickered with darker headlines.

A shooting near Brown University.
Violence in Sydney.
A life taken in Los Angeles, behind the walls of what should have been home.

Hannukah reminds us that light is not loud.
It is fragile. Intentional. Chosenโ€”again and againโ€”when darkness feels overwhelming.

And every headline whispered the same truth:
somewhere, someone was trembling with fear ๐Ÿ˜จ
A student. A family. A stranger whose name we may never know.

Let us not grow numb.

When safety feels scarce, it invites a harder question:
Are we placing our energy, our leadership, our attention in the right places?

This season is an invitationโ€”especially for those who leadโ€”to pause, to look honestly, and to ask:
What does it mean to protect human life?
What does it mean to restore trust, dignity, and peace?

Tonight, I light a candle in my heart.
For those who are grieving.
For those who are afraid.
For those whose lives were shattered by what should never have happened.

May this Festival of Lights remind us that leadership begins with care.
And that even the smallest flameโ€”when tendedโ€”can push back the dark. ๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ










"The inquiries and approach of my superior are creating significant disruption within the team."๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐‘ฏ๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’‡๐’‚๐’„๐’†๐’… ๐’‚ ๐’”...
12/14/2025

"The inquiries and approach of my superior are creating significant disruption within the team."๐Ÿ˜ฒ

๐‘ฏ๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’‡๐’‚๐’„๐’†๐’… ๐’‚ ๐’”๐’Š๐’•๐’–๐’‚๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’˜๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’๐’†๐’˜๐’๐’š ๐’‚๐’‘๐’‘๐’๐’Š๐’๐’•๐’†๐’… ๐’ƒ๐’๐’”๐’” ๐’Š๐’” ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’”๐’๐’–๐’“๐’„๐’† ๐’๐’‡ ๐’…๐’Š๐’”๐’“๐’–๐’‘๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’Ž๐’Š๐’”๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•?

Let me tell you more about: How SPEED can slow down the progress of projects.

These terms should not be underestimated within a large organization. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ ๐—–-๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ณ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป'๐˜€ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐˜†, ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ผ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—บ, ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜.๐Ÿ’ก

Upon further review with my client, we observed the following:

The new leadership, while eager to demonstrate capability, is exhibiting a pace that is negatively impacting project velocity and strategic planning. This urgency is creating misalignment within the ecosystem, which requires seamless collaboration among engineering, product, and project management to achieve optimal output.

This scenario exemplifies how ๐ž๐ฑ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐ž๐ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ž๐๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ.

We will explore how leaders can achieve speed without generating disarray by strategically decelerating. Please tune into this episode of with Maryam Marzara, MSOD, CPCC, PCC for further insights.( Link in comments)

We can help you as a leader to ๐ฆ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก ๐ฌ๐ค๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ: ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐ž๐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฎ๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฒ.
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12/14/2025

Driven doesnโ€™t mean invincible.

For high achievers, imbalance rarely looks like chaos.
It looks like momentum.

Deadlines met.
Goals exceeded.
Days fullโ€”yet strangely hollow.

When youโ€™re driven, being out of balance can feel productive.
You tell yourself itโ€™s just a season.
That rest can wait.
That alignment will come after the next milestone.

But imbalance has a quiet cost.

It shows up as irritability you canโ€™t explain.
Success that feels heavier than it should.
A sense that youโ€™re winningโ€”while slowly losing yourself.

In my book Pause to Rise, I write about balance not as a perfect equation,
but as a living relationshipโ€”
one that requires attention, honesty, and regular recalibration.

Balance isnโ€™t about doing less.
Itโ€™s about doing what matters without abandoning yourself in the process.

For driven individuals, the danger isnโ€™t burnout alone.
Itโ€™s misdirection.
Pouring your best energy into a life that no longer fits.

Sometimes the bravest move isnโ€™t to push harderโ€”
itโ€™s to pause long enough to notice whatโ€™s out of alignment,
and choose again.

If this resonates, consider this a gentle check-in:
Where have you been compensating instead of balancing?

Because growth without balance doesnโ€™t lead to fulfillment.
It leads to distanceโ€”from your values, your energy, and your sense of self.

And no amount of achievement can close that gap.


12/14/2025

For the strivers, the builders, the ones who keep goingโ€”this is your reminder.

Weโ€™ve been taught that progress looks like motion.
More effort.
More output.
Another box checked.๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’ฏ

So when things feel off, our instinct is to do more.
Push harder.
Move faster.
Surely momentum will fix it.

But for strivers, the real breakthrough often comes
when we stop running and start listening.

Self-reflection isnโ€™t a pause from progress.
It is progress.

Itโ€™s the moment you notice youโ€™re climbing the right ladderโ€”
or the wrong one.
Itโ€™s the courage to ask not Whatโ€™s next?
but Why am I doing this at all?

Doing more can take you further.
But reflection determines whether youโ€™re heading in the right direction.

For those who lead, carry responsibility, and rarely slow down,
clarity doesnโ€™t come in the noise.
It comes in intentional spaceโ€”
with structure, safety, and the right people in the room.

If youโ€™re a high performer who feels the pull to pauseโ€”
not to quit, but to realignโ€”
DM me โ€œHuddle.โ€
Iโ€™ll share details about our exclusive end-of-year Huddle for leaders,
designed to help strivers reflect, recalibrate, and move forward with purpose.

Before you do moreโ€”
ask yourself if youโ€™re listening enough.

Because sometimes, the most productive thing you can do
is stopโ€ฆ and see clearly.

12/14/2025

What dream are you letting time pass without pursuing?โœจ๏ธโœจ๏ธโœจ๏ธโœจ๏ธ

Time doesnโ€™t ask for permission.
It movesโ€”quietly, faithfullyโ€”
whether we act or hesitate,
whether we believe or doubt.

So many dreams donโ€™t fade because they arenโ€™t meant for us.
They fade because we tell ourselves later.
Later, when thereโ€™s more clarity.
More confidence.
More time.

But time was never the barrier.
Only the story we told ourselves about it.

What if the dream you keep postponing
isnโ€™t asking for perfectionโ€”
only permission?
Permission to begin small.
To be unfinished.
To grow while you go.

And maybeโ€”just maybeโ€”
the courage to start is the dreamโ€™s way
of meeting you halfway.

A short poem:

Time walks on, steady and kind,
Unmoved by fear or doubt in the mind.
Dreams donโ€™t expire, they wait for the callโ€”
To choose them now, imperfect and all.

Let this be your reminder:
A year will pass either way.
The question is simpleโ€”and powerful:

Will your dream be closer when it does?

If this resonates, take one small step today.
Not because the timing is perfectโ€”
but because the dream is still alive.

And if you decide to look your wins to shape what matters for your 2026 roadmap, dm me HUDDLE. We are hosting a workshop for a limited audience to hold space for such exploration.

12/14/2025

What if the thing youโ€™re meant to do is also what heals you?๐Ÿ’ก๐Ÿ’ก๐Ÿ’ก๐Ÿ’ก

What if your purpose isnโ€™t something separate from your painโ€”but shaped by it?๐Ÿ˜‰

We often search for meaning as if it lives somewhere far away:
in titles, milestones, or someone elseโ€™s definition of success.
But sometimes, purpose is quieter.
It shows up in the moments when you feel most yourselfโ€”
when time softens, breath deepens, and something inside you settles.

Maybe what youโ€™re meant to do is the very thing that helped you survive.
The work that gave your hurt a voice.
The skill you learned to make sense of chaos.
The way you listen, build, teach, create, or careโ€”
not because it was easy, but because it was necessary.

Healing doesnโ€™t always come from stepping away from the story.
Sometimes it comes from owning it.
Turning wounds into wisdom.
Experience into empathy.
And lived lessons into light for others.

What if your calling isnโ€™t just about impactโ€”
but about integration?
About becoming whole by doing the work that reminds you who you are.

If this resonates, pause for a moment today and ask yourself:
What energizes me, even after everything Iโ€™ve been through?

That answer might be more than a passion.
It might be the path home.

12/13/2025

Perception says: This is happening to me.
Perspective asks: What might be happening within them?

Perception is narrow.
It stands inside the moment, flooded with feeling.
It believes the story the nervous system tells first.

Perspective steps back.
It creates space.
It remembers that every behavior has a history.

When we stay trapped in perception, we personalize everything.
A delayed reply becomes rejection.
A sharp tone becomes disrespect.
A closed heart becomes cruelty.

But perspective whispers another possibility:
maybe theyโ€™re overwhelmed.
Maybe theyโ€™re afraid.
Maybe theyโ€™re carrying something we canโ€™t see.

Compassion isnโ€™t denial.
It doesnโ€™t excuse harm.
It simply refuses to reduce a human being to a single moment.

The shift from perception to perspective
is the shift from reaction to understanding.
From defense to curiosity.

When we zoom out, we realize:
everyone is acting from their level of awareness,
their unhealed places,
their learned ways of surviving.

And suddenly, the question changes.
Not โ€œWhy are they doing this to me?โ€
But โ€œWhat must it be like to be them right now?โ€

That question doesnโ€™t make us smaller.
It makes our hearts wider.

Because compassion begins the moment
we stop seeing people as problems
and start seeing them as stories still unfolding.

12/13/2025

The people closest to us donโ€™t just love us.
They touch our wounds.๐Ÿ˜ฒ

A comment that seems small.
A tone that feels familiar.
A silence that suddenly feels loud.
And before we know it, weโ€™re not here anymoreโ€”weโ€™re back there.

Gabor Matรฉ says a trigger isnโ€™t about whatโ€™s happening now.
Itโ€™s about whatโ€™s unresolved then.
The nervous system remembers long before the mind understands.

Thatโ€™s why strangers rarely undo us.
But someone we love can say one sentence
and our body reacts as if survival is on the line.

Reaction is fast.
Automatic.
Rooted in protection.

Responsiveness is slower.
It breathes.
It asks, โ€œWhat part of me is being touched right now?โ€

When weโ€™re reactive, weโ€™re not choosingโ€”weโ€™re defending.
Weโ€™re not listeningโ€”weโ€™re reliving.
The past borrows the present and speaks through us.

Gabor Matรฉ reminds us:
โ€œTriggers are not signs of weakness. They are invitations to awareness.โ€

The work isnโ€™t to blame the other person.
And it isnโ€™t to shame ourselves for reacting.
Itโ€™s to notice the moment our body tightens
and choose curiosity over collapse.

Healing doesnโ€™t mean never getting triggered.
It means learning to pause inside the fire.
To respond instead of reenact.

Because the people closest to us
arenโ€™t here to hurt usโ€”
theyโ€™re here to show us
where love still needs gentleness.

And thatโ€™s where freedom begins.

Do you want to be FREE?

Dm me if you are able to see how you are suffering.

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Kathy Hadizadeh is the founder of Heart Mind Tuning. A former technology executive, she helps her coaching clients make a transformational shift in their beliefs, emotions, and somatic experiences. Some of her focus areas are: stress management, anxiety reduction, nurturing wellness, fostering innovation and creativity, and improving communications through building self awareness and attention training.

Heart Mind Tuning also offers workshops and coaching to corporations on neuroscience based Mindfulness and Emotional Intelligence techniques and assessments.

She is a survivor of a traumatic brain injury. Her passion is building awareness of brain health and fitness. PAUSE to Rise is a movement she is heading which focuses on building awareness of the importance of slowing down and connecting with our true self and emotions to disrupt the life on autopilot and foster well being.