04/08/2026
SPT Magazine is pleased to share Dr. Elya Steinberg’s article on client repetition and the importance of responding with compassion and curiosity. Drawing on decades of practice, she writes: when clients repeat themselves, they are not being difficult—they are signaling something essential that has not yet been fully heard or expressed.
She offers her insights into what repetition in therapy means because it’s rarely about content. Repetition, she writes, is a process-level message, a meta-communication that says, “I’m trying to reach you, and I haven’t quite gotten there yet.” Sometimes therapists miss what was said because they are distracted, preoccupied, or attuned to a different frequency. Other times, the client speaks without fully accessing the deeper meaning beneath their words. And at times, we do hear the client, but they don’t feel heard. Understanding alone is not enough; clients need acknowledgment and the felt experience that their message has truly landed.
To read her article, please visit our website at www.SomaticPsychotherapyToday.com