01/19/2022
I'm so glad my husband is mostly a Prince and not a king .
In a world of women frothing at the mouth to meet their Kings, I know this statement might be off-putting
I mean, I get it, ultimately, yes, I desire a King.
But when I really checked in, after years of spinning out in concern that my sig other doesn't seem to be meeting the standard, I realized that *I* am not even ready for a King
And, I'm not even a Queen.
I mean I am in all of Her potentiality and nascent stages, but if I'm really honest, I, myself, am a solid Princess.
An elegant, deep, warm, powerful and also a darling, immature damsel-in-distress sometimes kinda Princess.
I suspect I'm not the only woman who's coming to this realization (maybe as you read these words this very moment..?)
So, I hear you, you're ready for an up-level in your relationship?
Well, guess what that's gonna take?
It requires that you step into even more of your mature, sovereign power, woman.
To confront the places where you abandon your purpose, or desire or pleasure and make your partner
responsible.
To own the places where you collapse in a loop of your sensitivity and aren't willing to feel your way through to the bottom and seek rescuing.
To reconcile places where you demand or criticize and close your heart because you're unwilling to feel vulnerable and receptive to outcomes others than your preferences.
To elegantly take ownership of where you've been unwilling re-source your own needs
And to magnetically invite your partner, who's busy protecting and providing generously for you, gallant like a erm..prince, to turn some of their beloved attention to their leadership and kingly evolution.
If they're up for the task, then for Desire's sake, let them lead amateurly and cheer them the f!$k on, cuz you're simultaneously gonna be creating amateurly, too, princess 😉!!!
Turns out you're a well-matched dynamic duo, from this pov, eh?
Part 2 coming soon!