12/23/2025
I used to say “I’m a nervous flyer” but I decided that I don’t want to identify as someone who is just scared of flying forever because it’s something I deeply want to overcome. ✈️
A few years ago I worked with a therapist who made me realize that this fear developed after I suffered a major brain injury. I took a fall that was completely out of my control and ever since then, I don’t like being in situations where I’m out of control. So even though I grew up flying regularly and was never anxious, this developed as a result of that traumatic event.
Obviously everyone’s root cause is different but it was actually really helpful for me to discover mine so I can continue to work through this.
What I do know helps fore sure?
Nervous system at regulation practices like breathwork, laughter and meditation are key.
Nutrition matters more than you’d think.
Mindset reframing is a game changer.
Having family or friends who provide a calm, grounding energy is priceless.
Asking Chat GPT to give me stats that reassure and remind me how safe it really is to fly is actually SO helpful.
I know I’m not the only one who deals with flying anxiety so I’m hoping some of my tips can help you too. 🙏
If you have any other tips or tools you suggest, drop them below! 👇