05/30/2025
You don’t just think stress—you carry it.
The tension in your jaw. The tightness in your chest. The way your shoulders lift when you brace yourself, even when nothing is happening. These aren’t random discomforts. They are patterns. Unfinished stories. Survival responses your body has held onto long after the moment has passed.
When you’ve spent years in survival mode, your body doesn’t always know how to relax. Even when the danger is gone, your nervous system might still be waiting for the next impact, the next rejection, the next moment of pain. That’s why healing isn’t just about changing your thoughts—it’s about reconnecting with the part of you that feels safe, grounded, and whole.
Somatic work is a conversation with your body.
💛 Grounding through pressure: Press your feet into the floor, your hands into your thighs. Let your body feel the weight of the present moment.
💛 Orienting: Slowly scan the room, noticing colors, textures, and shapes. Remind your system: I am here. I am safe.
💛 Breath & movement: Your breath is a bridge. If you feel stuck, try a slow inhale and an even slower exhale. Move in a way that feels intuitive—stretch, sway, shake, release.
💛 Self-regulation: Gently focus on areas of your body that feel more neutral or comfortable. Breathe into those spaces and allow yourself to feel some calm before moving forward.
Healing isn’t about forcing yourself to let go. It’s about making space for what your body has been holding onto. It’s about feeling before fixing. Listening before rushing to change.
Your body doesn’t need to be fixed.
It needs to be heard.