11/26/2025
This week I’m holding gratitude, grief, and truth, all at the same time.
Thanksgiving can be complicated for so many reasons.
For those navigating infertility, loss, pregnancy after loss, donor conception, or family-building through nontraditional paths… this time of year can bring up a lot.
And it’s also a complicated day when we acknowledge the real history of this land and our country and the ongoing impact colonization has had on Native and Indigenous communities, including on reproductive autonomy, maternal health, and generational trauma.
So if today feels heavy, layered, or bittersweet, that’s okay.
There’s no script for days that hold so much history and emotion.
This year, I’m choosing to:
✨ Hold space for the families we have
✨ Honor the families we dream of
✨ Acknowledge the children we carry in our hearts
✨ Give thanks in a way that doesn’t ignore complexity
✨ Recognize that for many Indigenous communities, Thanksgiving is a time for mourning not celebration.
Our stories… our reproductive stories, like history, are never simple.
They carry grief, longing, hope, resilience, and truth.
However you spend this holiday, I hope you find room to honor your whole story.
And I hope you give yourself permission to feel whatever comes up for you, gently, honestly, and with compassion. 🤍