11/23/2025
Parenting isn’t a clean slate when your path to get here was filled with waiting rooms, losses, medical bills, unanswered questions, or a body you had to negotiate with every step of the way.
When you’ve walked through infertility, loss, reproductive trauma, or years of “maybe someday,” parenthood carries layers that most people around you will never see.
The tenderness.
The vigilance.
The gratitude and the exhaustion.
The fear of losing what you fought so hard to hold.
The moments of joy that feel almost sacred because of what came before them.
If parenting feels different for you, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong.
It’s because your journey reshaped you.
Give yourself the grace your story deserves.
You are allowed to feel all of it… the beauty, the grief, the relief, the overwhelm, without comparing your experience to anyone else’s.
Your path was never supposed to look like theirs.
Save this for a day when you need a softer reminder. And share it with someone who parents with layers, too. 💜