02/20/2026
Guilt can be uncomfortable, but it’s often productive. It helps us recognize when we’ve hurt someone and motivates repair.
Shame, on the other hand, lingers. It loops. It turns one moment into a global statement about who you are.
Instead of thinking, I handled that poorly,
shame shifts it to, I always ruin things.
This subtle shift has a big emotional impact.
In Lauren David's recent blog post, she breaks down how shame and guilt differ, how they show up internally, and why shame can feel so heavy and hard to move through.
Understanding the difference can be the first step toward self-compassion.
You can read the full blog here: https://rootrisetherapyla.com/blog/2025/shame-vs-guilt