02/25/2026
I couldn’t have imagined that I’d be in a relationship where my husband hosts a party on a Monday night at our house with 300 guests listed on an 8 foot long scroll, a banquet table laden with food but also semi n**e drag performers dressed as the sun and the moon where my 80 year old father in law was munching on Persian lavash bread while enjoying the show. With a lead up to the party that included having hundreds of Chinese lanterns hung around the entire house as well as 200 umbrellas hung upside down from a 20x30 tent in the backyard. All to celebrate and honor the life and art of Steven Arnold, who sadly died from complications of AIDS in the 90s, and whose incredible breadth of artwork inspires us all. It’s hard to describe what dedication and love Jay has put into something like this, and it’s one thing to come to the show or the party, and another to live in this world he is creating for all of us, including for our daughter - who’s been obsessed with the lanterns, umbrellas and the room full of color and light beneath her nursery.
Thank you and for sharing your love, joy and light with all of us.