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Destinee the Medium

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From a very young age, Destinee has gone through many challenging obstacles in her life in regard to her mental health and she was statistically aligned to "fail". She was born and raised in Rhode Island to two teen parents who did not get along and was living in a dysfunctional household. Her father was battling a heroin addiction while her mother worked tirelessly to keep the family afloat financially in their tiny apartment. When she was around 8-9 years old, her parents split up, and shortly after that her Mom was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma with a successful chance of living at 30%. This set the tone for the rest of Destinee's life and for her mental health. She spent her childhood having to be an adult being a caregiver to her Mom while also balancing her education (which she struggled with) and trying to enjoy life as a child. She experienced bullying by many of her peers growing up and often felt alone and isolated. She faced bouts of severe depression, suicide, and anxiety into her adulthood and also a lot of identity issues. In early 2017, Destinee was diagnosed with ADHD. This diagnosis was, in a sense, "relieving", as it helped her start to understand herself more in-depth and it also answered a lot of the questions and concerns she had about herself. Despite the educational struggles, Destinee was able to successfully receive her Bachelor of Arts in Psychology with a Minor in Biology in 2018 from Colby-Sawyer College. As of 2023, she has been in counseling for almost 10 years to help find healthier ways to deal with her trauma and triggers she learned into her adulthood. She recently had a "quarter-life-crisis" in late 2022, which "woke" her up and inspired her to become a Public Speaker. She wants to help others who have faced similar life struggles and trauma find the peace that is possible within themselves. It seems like an impossible bridge to cross when your mind is in chaos and life isn't going the "way it's supposed to", but it is possible to find the peace and serenity that YOU DESERVE so you can CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

10/30/2025

Oh Deer! What a busy October it has been!! (All good things!) 🥰❤️

Since we are nearing the end of October already, I wanted to come back and share that I am offering MORE free healings & readings for the months of November & December in exchange for a review sheet.

✨If you have never had a session with me before or it has been 3+ months since our last session together, you are eligible for a free session!✨

These sessions include a 10-minute healing & a 30~ minute reading. All together, it will only be an hour of your time. These will mainly be scheduled over ZOOM, but I am willing to meet some people around Kentuckiana in person as well.

And even though these are free, I am open to receiving donations if you choose (however they are not required!)

If you are interested, please leave me a comment below or send me a DM! 💌 (This also applies if you have questions and are unsure about what this is all about. I’m happy to answer!) 🤗

10/16/2025

If there is one major theme that I have learned in my life so far, it’s that you will be the biggest and most important project that you will ever work on.

But it’s very easy to get distracted in this world.

We prioritize work. We prioritize relationships. We prioritize our appearances. We prioritize our friends. We prioritize easy dopamine hits.

We seem to prioritize everything else but ourselves sometimes.

And then when we lose our jobs, or lose our friends, or lose our relationships, and everything else that we have put before us, we wonder why we feel so lost. We wonder why we feel so resentful and frustrated.

That resentment and frustration that you feel is a disconnection from yourself. It’s your inner self screaming at you for genuine nourishment.

But it’s easy to go back and take the convenient route. Replacing your discomfort with more friends, more things, more tasks, and so on.

It will send you into an endless cycle until you decide to start choosing yourself more seriously.

It’s not impossible, but how fed up do you need to feel in order to start making change? How much longer are you willing to wait? If you don’t start now, then when?

I took this same path for many years and I understand how hard and frustrating it is. But I can attest that you are able to get yourself out of this cycle, you just have to start choosing to put yourself first. You have to get so completely sick and fed up with the life that you have been living that you can’t take it any longer.

What will it take for you to get there?

Something to think about 😉✨

10/13/2025

I have a lot of new people here from the past couple of months so I wanted to go ahead and post an introduction! ✨❤️

My name is Destinee, and I am an evidence-based psychic medium, Reiki II energy healer, spiritual counselor, & associate metaphysical minister. I consider myself non-religious but spiritual.

I love rap music, rock, & metal. I absolutely adore cats. My favorite color is pink. I have a Bachelors in psychology & I love reading books related to neuroscience or psychological systems.

2 years ago, I had an experience that changed my life & pushed me to more seriously pursue my mediumship. I have had many other experiences since when I was a child, but I didn’t know what it was or sometimes I thought everybody else experienced things the same way I did. When I was a teenager, I had multiple mediums tell me that I was going to be doing the same exact work they were doing. But I didn’t know how & I didn’t know what I was doing exactly.

I spent most of my teen years & early adulthood overcoming childhood trauma & healing my mental health. I had to overcome multiple bouts of depression & periods of suicidal ideation. I firmly believe that my abilities were blocked due to the poor state of my mental health throughout those years. I was very pessimistic, negative, & didn’t believe that I was capable of a happy or successful life due to my circumstances.

But today I am in a much healthier place. I never thought I would see this day & I’m so happy to be here doing this work & helping others. 🤗❤️

I currently offer readings & healings at more affordable prices (sometimes free donation-based sessions too!), & I also offer spiritual counseling services with a free initial consultation to start to determine your needs & your goals.

I plan to offer more engagements in the future, however, I am just taking small baby steps right now to get started. 🥰

I appreciate you being here & I look forward to helping others find their way in this world, just like I was able to in my own life.

We are all on our own paths & we all have different accomplishments to look forward to & goals to achieve, but I am happy to be a form of guidance in that search.

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09/29/2025

When I turned 20 years old, I had no idea how my life would turn out.

I had just transferred to a four-year college, joined a bunch of clubs, was learning how to make friends & be outspoken again, while also seriously starting the process of working through childhood trauma & coming to terms with what was healthy & what was not.

I lacked confidence. I didn’t know who I was. I thought I knew what I wanted, but throughout my 20s I realized that I had no idea what I actually wanted.

Throughout my early and middle 20s I was scrambling for answers. I was looking up & down & all around to find a solution to the emptiness that I felt.

I worked some terrible jobs. I also worked some great jobs, but they didn’t pay enough. I struggled with finding a balance to pay my student loans while also finding a job that paid enough & fulfilled me.

I followed the milestones & the footsteps that I thought I was supposed to take. I eventually took on a career that paid six figures, & it allowed me to be able to get married & buy my first home. But it crushed me mentally & eventually it led me to my spiritual awakening.

I’ve spent my later 20s searching for answers to the things that really matter. Who am I really? Outside of money and materialism, what do I want for myself? How can I help others & bring value to their life? What actually brings me true joy & happiness?

I’ve made some huge strides so far, but I know my 30s will bring me the answers & opportunities that I still seek.

But today I’ve decided to just reflect on my last day in my 20s. In the moment, I didn’t think I was making huge strides & I always felt behind. But as I look back, I’ve actually made some massive strides in my life, & I couldn’t be more proud of where it’s led me to today. ❤️

So my advice for people who are still in their 20s & are still figuring it all out, please understand you are exactly where you need to be. Enjoy the curiosity. Allow yourself to explore new opportunities. Don’t feel like you have to rush into something because you think you are running out of time. You are right on time. ❤️ Enjoy the journey. Enjoy the hardships. Enjoy your 20s. ✨

09/22/2025

The bad news 👉🏻 I tore my FPL 😶
The good news?? 👉🏻 I am offering more Free Healings & Readings!✨

I am currently only offering them on Zoom, but they work exactly the same as they would in person!

So to clarify, here’s what I’m offering:
✨A 10-minute Energy Healing
✨A 30-minute Psychic/Mediumship Reading

The Cost?:
✨A review sheet in exchange for your time
✨FREE! (However, I am open to receiving donations to help with my recovery, but they are NOT expected!) 🫡

If you missed me at the Witches Brew event a few weeks ago, now is your chance!

However, if you already received a reading from me, feel free to send this to any friends or family that you think might be interested! 🤗

Please leave a comment below or send me a DM if you are interested and I will reach out to coordinate with you! ❤️

08/29/2025

Catch me tomorrow at from 3-5pm!

I will be offering free 20 minute readings in exchange for a review sheet. 🤗 (I will also be accepting donations if you choose)

Feel free to reach out now to reserve a spot in advanced! ❤️✨❤️✨ Send me a DM or comment below!

08/27/2025

The women in my life were never just appearances, numbers, or expectations. They were strength, softness, resilience, and love—always there when life demanded more of them. I grew up seeing them fight battles against society’s standards, against men’s demands, and even against themselves.

And yet, I never saw them as anything less than divine. I never measured them by weight, beauty, or trends—I remembered how they made me feel, the wisdom they shared, the love they gave.

This piece is both a tribute to them and a question for all of us: why do we still measure women by the least important things, when their true power is undeniable?

Read it now on Substack ✨ Link in Bio ✨

08/22/2025

I used to wonder why some of the most beautiful souls I knew struggled the hardest, while others seemed to have everything with ease. For a long time, I believed suffering automatically earned reward.

But life doesn’t always work that way.

What I discovered about lack, worth, and patience changed everything—and it wasn’t what I expected.

Read it now on Substack. Link in Bio ✨

08/20/2025

One of trauma’s greatest disguises is avoidance. For years, I thought I was simply living, but really, I was running.

Avoidance can take on many forms, and for a long time, it quietly shaped my entire life.

This is the story of how I began to see it for what it was and what happened when I stopped letting it lead me.

Read it now on sub stack. Link in Bio ✨

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08/14/2025

Sometimes the darkest paths teach us who we really are — but what if everything you believe about your past isn’t the whole truth? What if the scars you carry are not your identity, but a story of survival and strength?

I’ve walked through that fire — and found a way out. The journey isn’t easy, and the mind can be a tricky place. But what if the life you imagine for yourself is waiting just beyond the lies your mind tells?

You are not what you went through. And that alone changes everything.

New blog post on Substack. Link in Bio ❤️✨

08/12/2025

Hiding felt safe until I realized it was stealing my life from me. The more I guarded my heart, the more I lost touch with who I really was.

I missed opportunities, passed on connections, and silenced parts of myself that were desperate to be heard.

Healing has been learning to trust again—one crack in the cement at a time—until the light finally starts to seep in. And once you feel that light, you can’t help but keep going.

Read it now on Substack. Link in my bio ❤️

08/07/2025

She used to bite her tongue. Now she bites back.

I’ve been quiet for a long time. Too long.

Not because I didn’t have anything to say — but because I didn’t think I was allowed to say it.

But silence doesn’t protect you. It just delays the truth.

And mine? It’s finally out.

This isn’t about blame. It’s about clarity.

About finally recognizing that being kind doesn’t mean being quiet.

That setting boundaries doesn’t make you “difficult.”

And that healing isn’t always pretty — but it is powerful.

New Substack:
Come meet the version of me I buried to keep the peace.

🖤 Link in bio.

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